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Confused and I have a girlfriend

I didn't even finish reading... If I were your girlfriend I would of left you ages ago for cheating.
 
You're not straight. Your girlfriend seems to know you're not straight. You list yourself as something other than straight. Stop calling yourself straight. You don't have to be full on gay to like dick - being into men is quite enough.

I'd also state that if you love your girlfriend, you wouldn't be so eager to swallow other peoples' dicks. You being uncomfortable having a relationship with a guy is irrelevant; straight guys usually don't have the desire to give head, just like gay guys usually don't have the desire to lick pussy.
 
So then, where lies the confusion?
 
nhbiryan said:
I guess because sometimes I have doubts that I'm NOT gay. Sometimes I prefer to be with a man sexually but at the same time I have no interest in being in a relationship with a guy.

I'm not here to get bashed, was just curious if there's other guys that feel like I do.
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If you're curious if there are other guys who feel like you, then there is the Straight & Bisexual forum on this site. There are also other bisexual sites for men as well. Furthermore, having the desire to be with a man sexually, but not necessarily in a relationship would still mean that you're bisexual, not gay. Unless you completely lose your attraction to females, you will be bisexual to some degree (and there are varying degrees of bisexuality like anything else in life).
 
So, what's your attraction to women currently?

There are a ton of possible reasons not to want to date men that have to do with subconscious fears, upbringing etc and not sexuality. "I want to fuck men but not date them" has been the self-loathing closeted homosexual's anthem for decades.

I'm not saying this to bash you or imply that it's your particular story, but to give you a perspective. What we think we want romantically often has to do with our fears of being "abnormal".
 
I really don't see where you are confused.

If your girlfriend is okay with everything, where is the problem?
 
nhbiryan said:
I'm definitely attracted to women, specifically my girlfriend. I just tend to be with this guy friend more than I have sex with my girl. I think the only reason why I do it more with him is because I can. He's younger and always horny. If he didn't want to as much, I'd be fine with it but also not complaining about how often we do. But you make a good point!!
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It is usually the case that guys have a much higher sex drive than girls so it is not surprising that your guy friend is open for more sex than your girl friend. That is one big advantage of gay sex for guys ! Since your gf appears to be quite happy knowing you are also attracted sexually to guys you have no problem. Make the most of the current situation as long as it lasts ;) It is unlikely to remain in the current state, one or other of your 'friends' will be wanting a different sort of friendship !
 
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