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Confused Gay Guy Needs Advice

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HappyMac

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Okay, so basically I'm gay and have been out for quite a while now.

I've never done anything with a women, not even kissed one, and I've been gay all my life. Recently, however, lately I've been feeling "urges" to have sex with women, and I'm finding myself more and more attracted to straight porn.

So this is where I am now: Attracted to men both sexually and could easily have a relationship with one. Attracted to women sexually but I could never have a relationship with one.

So what should I do? Should I act on my desires to be intimate with a woman? If so, how do I do that? (A silly question, I know. But as a gay guy I really don't know!)

Or should I ignore this "fantasy" and get on with my life?

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Welcome on JUB dear HappyMac :wave:(!)
It's a good question !
I'm not a specilist but I think youhave just a fantazy !
Try a sexual relation with a girl and you can have an answer to your question :rolleyes:
 
Hire a female escort. Try it out to see if you like it or not. You'll find out soon enough.

Yeah...you'll have to spend some money. You would have to spend that kind of money dating a woman (on a few dates anyway)...but that does not guarantee you'll get some action. Besides, most women available for dating want a relationship and not just sex. But that's not what you're looking for.

With an escort, you know you're getting it that evening...and it would satisfy your curiosity.
 
There are a ton of "fag hags" (I hate that word - just using it for the sake of brevity). Just go to a mostly gay/mix bar. I don't think it would be very difficult to get one of these girls that love gay guys to give it a whirl with you.

Oh...and welcome to JUB!
 
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There are a ton of "fag hags" (I hate that word - just using it for the sake of brevity). Just go to a mostly gay/mix bar. I don't think it would be very difficult to get one of these girls that love gay guys to give it a whirl with you.

Oh...and welcome to JUB!
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Didn't know that. Your logic makes sense though...for them trying to convert gay guys. I never thought of going to a gay bar to pick up women. Gotta try that one.
 
HunterM said:
Didn't know that. Your logic makes sense though...for them trying to convert gay guys. I never thought of going to a gay bar to pick up women. Gotta try that one.
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Just make sure the girls know what's going on so they don't feel used. Don't let them think they'll "convert" you. I'm sure this is common sense. I don't think they are there to "convert" men - they just like hanging out with their gay friends.
 
well, i've tried craigslist and adultfriendfinder with no luck. started chatting with a bi guy on a4a who says he might know a girl into a 3way but i'm pretty sure his profile is fake and his chat is all bullshit....

and bi's and str8's tend to be really hesitant about sex with gays...fear of aids/std's....at least that's the vibe i'm getting
 
keep looking, don't get disappointed. You have the rest of your life to fulfill this fantasy with a women. I had sex with 4 women, then I came out of the closet, 35 years ago. I still want to eat pussy, but I haven't. I came really close one day, but I had to go to work. I've rimmed lots of ass since then. :)
 
HunterM said:
Didn't know that. Your logic makes sense though...for them trying to convert gay guys. I never thought of going to a gay bar to pick up women. Gotta try that one.
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There are actually straight guys who go to gay bars pretending to be gay but picking up girls instead. For some reason they call it "fashionable".

In your case, just say how you feel and I'm sure one of the girls would be open to let you try out her "bits", even just out of curiosity.
 
Maybe you should experiment to learn if this is a passing fad with you are not. There are hookup sites for girls too. Just use Google.
 
Run for your life to your nearest gay church and head for the confessional and tell the preist about this and he'll get that straight demon out of you!! Quickly. And you might also get lucky with the priest.
 
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