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Confused- Girlfriends Brother

To be frank, it's hard to "unring that bell."

Aside from the morality of having a one-night stand, kudos for opening a door to your sexuality; on the one-hand I see this as just a process of learning about yourself. I am sure that this relationship with Adam is something that you will never forget. Don't go into denial, and let your feelings surface, and let them "be".

On the other hand, I am surely not advocating that you disrespect Abi. If that is something that you really want, commit to it, like you have, and move forward.

...however, you've been together since you you were young, and also be aware this situation will have changed you and be aware that it still is a "love triangle" even if you broke it off with Adam. Be prepared for this situation to possible explode in your face.

Finally, if you break things off with Abi, it might (or might not) be a train wreck to hook up with Adam - sometimes it's best to move on, and continue to discover yourself with other people.
 
Bail. Plain and simple, you're caught in a web of trouble. Your girlfriend won't like what's happened, especially considering the context of your relationship with her and what happened with her brother. It wouldn't be fair to either sibling to continue seeing one or the other, at least not after this.

I think that when you said it "felt right" you were referring to enjoying another guy's company in that setting. Extract yourself from the sibs and find a guy you want to fool around with. Find yourself first, and not at the expense of someone else's emotions.

No matter what you do at this point, someone will get hurt, it's just part of the territory. You've lit a fire in the woods; your best course of action is to kill the flames before they run rampant, if you catch my drift.

Best of luck.
 
It's over with her, split up today. She wasn't happy, got really upset and said she never wanted to see me again :(

I'm absolutely gutted, more so than I thought I would be. It's true what they say, you really don't know what you've got till it's gone. Can't blame anyone other than myself like.

Well in the words of Roy Keane, "We move on"
 
Just_Believe18 said:
^ Did you tell her everything or just break up with her?

Lesson learned, man.
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Just broke up, didn't wanna cause a rift between her and her brother, better her just hating me than both of us I suppose. Just said we'd grown apart and I thought it would be better if we starting seeing other people.
 
well done man, you did the right thing all around, as hard as it was it's better than the alternative.
 
You did the right thing in the long run, it may be a bitch for a while but it's the right thing and that's what matters most.....just don't go doing something like that again, you'll end up despising yourself.
 
you put the logs in the fire pit and they have avery small ember. It's just waiting for you to make another dumb mistake and it's going to flame up on you.

If you cant stand the heat get out of the kitchen. You in for some drama. But it's poor choice that did it...

good luck.
 
I would do whatever you want to do. Think about what you want. And after you make that decision, try to make everything right in the other places. If you can't things will change and you should be ready for it.
 
So whats up with the brother? If hes hot and you are into it than go for it.. but christmas and thankgiving will be weird lol
 
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