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I don't know if this is the right place to post this so I am sorry if it's not. I'm 18 years old and I am very confused. I have never had sex with a guy or a girl and I identify as straight but I don't really know. Since I was very young I have always loved women and I have been attracted to women. I watch straight porn and I have had girlfriends and all that. The thing is I have also watched gay porn for a long time. I always loved gay porn. I just love watching to guys playing with each other and fucking, it makes me really horny, but I don't really find men attractive. I never see a guy on the street and think he's attractive or anything. It seems to me that it's more about the sex. Recently I came to the conclusion that I'm bi because of this but I don't really know. I'm not worried about not being accepted, I have a very progressive family and my friends are similarly accepting.

What I am confused about is what I am. I seem to prefer gay porn to straight/lesbian porn and the thought of gay sex really excites me, but I don't find men attractive like I find women attractive. I always get excited about gay sex when I'm a bit horny but afterwards I lose interest and I go back to liking women.

Anyone experienced anything like this?
 
G7B777 said:
I don't know if this is the right place to post this so I am sorry if it's not. I'm 18 years old and I am very confused. I have never had sex with a guy or a girl and I identify as straight but I don't really know. Since I was very young I have always loved women and I have been attracted to women. I watch straight porn and I have had girlfriends and all that. The thing is I have also watched gay porn for a long time. I always loved gay porn. I just love watching to guys playing with each other and fucking, it makes me really horny, but I don't really find men attractive. I never see a guy on the street and think he's attractive or anything. It seems to me that it's more about the sex. Recently I came to the conclusion that I'm bi because of this but I don't really know. I'm not worried about not being accepted, I have a very progressive family and my friends are similarly accepting.

What I am confused about is what I am. I seem to prefer gay porn to straight/lesbian porn and the thought of gay sex really excites me, but I don't find men attractive like I find women attractive. I always get excited about gay sex when I'm a bit horny but afterwards I lose interest and I go back to liking women.

Anyone experienced anything like this?
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This is extremely common. Most of us went through this. Sometimes it's because you are bi, sometimes it's because you are gay, always it's because there is something in your head saying liking guys is wrong.

Bi or Gay the attractions to other men can be scary, because we're told it's bad growing up, because we're worried what people will say, because we don't want to be gay. Your body wants what it's going to want, but your mind can run interference.

Don't sweat it, you're not abnormal, experiment, as you get older this will work itself out so long as you keep telling yourself that there is nothing different about loving a guy, than there is about loving a girl. If you can do both, great, if you are gay great.

Just keep telling yourself that and you'll turn out fine.
 
You might want to look into the Kinsey scale, a method developed by Alfred Kinsey to determin one's sexual orientation within reasonable and comparable terms. You can even take the test HERE.
 
For anyone questioning orientation, the answer is probably found when they are horny. We all want to be like everyone else, so coming out to ourselves can be difficult and oftentimes painful.

I'm wondering if at those times your most horny if you masturbate quickly to "get over it" rather than being in public or at the gym where you'd be more actively checking out guys. As humans, we have a lot of built in safety mechanisms depending upon our personalities. It's great that you have supportive family and friends, but how accepting and fearless are you about yourself? I wish you every good wish. Feel free to pm me. I was married to a woman and I have two children.
 
Kinsey scale is totaly wrong as it is showing me i am not gay with 20% only gayness.

All other available tests are showing i am not gay. Exapmle
 
gebrider said:
Kinsey scale is totaly wrong as it is showing me i am not gay with 20% only gayness.
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This thread is a year old, so if we get too far into your situation, we may want to break this off into a separate thread...

Kinsey isn't a measure of "gayness", it's a measure of behavior.

Kinsey wrote his paper about 70 years ago, so the concept was novel- that homosexual behavior was common and that it wasn't just homosexuals who had sex with their own gender.

So, you might take these tests today and have one score. You might take them next year and have a different score.

Whether you're gay or not can't be measured only by a test. It's a lot more complex.
 
I started out life a 1 then slid all the way over to 6.
 
So how is the experimenting going?

G7B777 said:
I don't know if this is the right place to post this so I am sorry if it's not. I'm 18 years old and I am very confused. I have never had sex with a guy or a girl and I identify as straight but I don't really know. Since I was very young I have always loved women and I have been attracted to women. I watch straight porn and I have had girlfriends and all that. The thing is I have also watched gay porn for a long time. I always loved gay porn. I just love watching to guys playing with each other and fucking, it makes me really horny, but I don't really find men attractive. I never see a guy on the street and think he's attractive or anything. It seems to me that it's more about the sex. Recently I came to the conclusion that I'm bi because of this but I don't really know. I'm not worried about not being accepted, I have a very progressive family and my friends are similarly accepting.

What I am confused about is what I am. I seem to prefer gay porn to straight/lesbian porn and the thought of gay sex really excites me, but I don't find men attractive like I find women attractive. I always get excited about gay sex when I'm a bit horny but afterwards I lose interest and I go back to liking women.

Anyone experienced anything like this?
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