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Ok so pretty much I'm confused on what I am. So I like girls. BUT, on some occasions I like to jerk off to gay porn. What does this mean? I don't think I would do anything with a guy but I just like to look at it. What am I? I was confused on this so hopefully someone can help me out. Thanks!
 
Well, unless you're willing to experiment and find out, it doesn't really matter.

For now, you're a guy who likes to jerk off to gay porn.
 
Your orientation is your orientation regardless of your sexual activities or lack thereof. I'm gay and being married to a woman and having two children didn't change that no matter how many people told me otherwise. Even here I sometimes get an animated message telling me I'm bi. I'm not.

You may currently think you'd never be sexual with a guy because of internal fears or sexual/cultural messaging. No one is raised to be gay and thus coming out to oneself can be the most difficult part of the coming out process. Don't accept a label from someone else but do be open to the possibility.

My process was akin to having a small kernel inside of me that kept growing until I felt like I would burst. I didn't act on it until I was in my 30s. While I am joyful I have 2 children and a grandchild, I wouldn't wish my process on anyone else.
 
Do you have to fill out a form stating exactly what you like?

Nope.

You don't have to explain your sexual history to any of your future partners. As long as you can go to them with a clinic and get a clean bill of health(no STDs, etc), they shouldn't be worried about your past.

If you just want to look, keep watching gay porn in private.

If you find yourself wanting an actual guy down the road, DON'T go on Craigslist. Straight men and thieves will reply, hoping to harm you. It's not worth the risk.

Try a gay app and looking for somebody else who is inexperienced.

Stop worrying about defining yourself. As long as you don't make fun of other people or demand they label their sexual tastes, you'll be fine.
 
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