Confusing experience....

[abb188]

Ok so yesterday I got head from a friend and I gave him head. The problem is.... I couldn't cum or have an orgasm. It was really weird like it didn't feel good. This is the first time I've been with a guy and I dont know if maybe this means I'm not gay? But I wasnt into him so maybe that's why psychologically I couldnt get myself to cum. He was all over me and saying how hott I am and this and that but I dont find him attractive at all. But shouldnt it be normal to cum just because you're with a guy or does he have to be attractive to get you to that point? Plus when he gave head he was like sucking the crap out of my dick and it hurt. And when I told him to go lower he started pulling my sack and that hurt too. And all this was at 4 in the morn. I dunno this whole experience was weird for me on so many levels lol.... any input?

 

[G-Lexington]

OK, let's count the problems, shall we?

* It was four in the morning.
* You don't find this guy attractive.
* He was doing it wrong and it hurt.
* It was your first time.

The surprising thing isn't that you didn't cum. The surprising thing is that you managed to have an erection at all. You had so many factors working against you that this result was perhaps inevitable.

A few random thoughts.

* If you're not interested in getting head from him, you can decline. Don't feel the need to accept the offer just because it's there.

* If he's doing it wrong - at least as far as you're concerned - for God's sake, SAY so. "Dude, lighten up. I like it slower." "Watch the teeth, please."

* If you're just not getting off, have him lick your balls and stroke yourself to climax.

Lex

 

[KaraBulut]

maybe this means I'm not gay?

No, it means your friend gives lousy head.

We all fell off our bikes a few times when we were learning to ride.

Get up, dust yourself off and try again.

 

[benlemieux2003]

I dont find him attractive at all

Problem solved. Partly I guess. A lot of the fun comes from what you feel for the other person.

 

[josher]

For most people it's the brain and not the sex organs that trigger an orgasm.

Your discomfort and lack of attraction to your friend kept you from achieving an orgasm.

If you're looking for an excuse to say you aren't gay, this experience won't cut it.

 

[boy0boy]

I know exactly that feeling. Like not that it was horrible all around... but for my first time it wasn't all it's cracked up to be! Then again it was just that once and I had to like "get my head in the game" to like really push and cum.. and that wasn't even during the bj, just a handjob.

I imagine it gets better

 

[landers]

You think you might not be gay because you didn't enjoy getting head from a guy. If you had a blindfold on you wouldn't have been able to tell it was a guy, you just got bad head. The real test to find out if you are gay or not is whether you enjoyed giving head. If you liked it you're gay.

 

[AdmiraalW238]

OK, let's count the problems, shall we?

* It was four in the morning.
* You don't find this guy attractive.
* He was doing it wrong and it hurt.
* It was your first time.

The surprising thing isn't that you didn't cum. The surprising thing is that you managed to have an erection at all. You had so many factors working against you that this result was perhaps inevitable.

A few random thoughts.

* If you're not interested in getting head from him, you can decline. Don't feel the need to accept the offer just because it's there.

* If he's doing it wrong - at least as far as you're concerned - for God's sake, SAY so. "Dude, lighten up. I like it slower." "Watch the teeth, please."

* If you're just not getting off, have him lick your balls and stroke yourself to climax.

Lex

Well said, Lex

maybe this means I'm not gay?

No, it means your friend gives lousy head.

We all fell off our bikes a few times when we were learning to ride.

Get up, dust yourself off and try again.