On Topic Discussion cormac missing again

[belamyi]

And this is what you get when there is no belamo around to be whipped for someone else's thread derailing... and egotism.

 

[unloadonme]

Welcome back!

 

[NotHardUp1]

And this is what you get when there is no belamo around to be whipped for someone else's thread derailing... and egotism.

 

[Araucaria]

JUBBERS prematurely dancing over belamo's grave???

 

[Alistair]

Another thread belamo has to make about himself

Miss you Cormac hurry back

 

[johaninsc]

Regarding some posts that were (THANKFULLY) deleted, I'm probably the only person ever to talk to W on the phone after the tragic event, and clearly there was something tragic. He was terribly shy, and his voice was breaking, and apparently there was something that was catastrophic for him.

If that stuff hadn't been deleted, I was ready, now, to make a post here to say something like "CAN'T SOME OF YOU GUYS JUST LET GO OF THIS, PLEASE?" I believe there was some truth behind everything, though I'm not sure HOW much. W was definitely in deep distress.
......

 

[johaninsc]

 

[Alistair]

 

[Level27]

lol I don't get it.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Another thread belamo has to make about himself

Miss you Cormac hurry back

If you want me to banish him just say the word papi.

 

[belamyi]

^ May I say it in advance of all those who make any thread about anyone else ultimately a thread about themselves, feelings and needs, and who rush to call other people by their own names.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Guess I'll have to do what I always do whenever there's civil unrest. Time to take my top off! #titties #nipplesmakeeverythingbetter

 

[backagain]

Cormac may have been like others over the years. The time to leave is now. No notice. He may come back and read threads, but not participate. Like myself and others. Life happens.

 

[belamyi]

The software buggering in JUB may have been the last straw.

 

[belamyi]

 

[Level27]

I've replied at least twice to express my best regard for Cormac. I remember enjoying a few conversations on JUB with him, even thought I wasn't as 'close' to him as some other JUB'ers here. I know even less as to what goes on in his life, let alone potential reasons why he disappeared, as I dont think it's truly my business. Still, I wish him the best in whatever potential struggles or hardship possibly has him.

With that, honestly, I had to reply to this tangent topic that was born out of this thread:
I must point out in frustration that NotHardUp1 is not necessarily guilt-free of this; your post here was a response addressing his statement, which is why I'm bringing him up.

In more than 1 occassion, at least one conversation which happened in my own thread, he (NotHardUp1) had not respected the topic author's opinion which differed greatly than his own.

In my specific instance, I had once casually inquired 6 years ago about work as a porn company assistant; particularly where one might potentially find job opportunities for it. His first and only appearance in the thread was to bicker over my alleged naiveté, disrespectfully attempting to ridicule me for even asking about what it's like to be one. Another disrespectful member who replied before him had told me to "dream on", trying to personally render my qualification without any qualification from him (the other disrespectful JUB'er) to do so. When I called that member's rudeness out, NotHardUp1 was quick to jump to his defense, attempting frailly to justify the rude JUB'er's remark as "not impolite but realistic". (In other words, according to NotHardUp1, the rude member had reason to piss on my legs and tell me it's the rain.)

It was this, and at least one other thread that wasn't mine, that impressed on me that NotHardUp1 has somewhat of a single-minded and opinionated worldview on things, not readily able to accept that even people who he may regard as 'dweebish', puerile and the like have valid opinions and thought-processes that make this world a larger place. (Heh. If a porn company position other than a model is what sparked curiosity, why shouldn't a discussion about it be allowed to potentially turn thoughtful and fruitful without it having to be regarded as foolish?)

...

I'm sorry to point out that, again, the member who you're responding this in agreement to has in fact been said-submission-bully at least once before. I had right now expressed a pleasantly fitting example of it.

I'm not sure that it isn't too late to apologize, but I do if it isn't.

If refuting a point is bullying, then I'm guilty. My impression of bullying was more along the ad hominem attacks, but I'll concede it is many things.

I searched your threads and re-read the first page of the one you refer to. The other Jubber in question was Benvolio, no friend of mine, but we (you and I) would still disagree about the post he made.

For the others reading this, please find the thread here: https://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/449800-job-search-porn-company-assistant

My original post expressing acceptance of apology has been withdrawn (per the help of a mod), if you were unaware.

Your apology is quite obviously insincere; "if refuting a point comes off as bullying" obviously shows your blatant contempt of everything I've been explaining to you as to why I believe you are 'wrong', and your frail disguise of it as some hopefully-legitimate statement of regret won't cut it.

I'm not sure what you're not understanding, nor why you're still attempting to 'disagree' with something you've been proven wrong over several of times. "Etiquette in the gay community" involved the very fact that Benvolio (which name you admitted was who I was referring to as the other disrespectful person, all the while I was hoping to keep him more anonymous) was making a remark, "dream on", that had absolutely no standing basis; and likely made it for no other reason than to irritate and stir trouble.

One doesn't need to be as smart as a dumbfuck to realize that porn jobs that aren't porn models in front of the camera have always existed. You've known it. Benvolio (who I was trying to keep anonymous, until you had to open your mouth about him) had known it. I've known it. So has everyone else who has masturbated to and produced porn. Hell, I even showed it to you by presenting you examples of such job postings that actually exists. (Funny that you intentionally left out that part of my post in your quote that folded you out on it; you know, the part where you replaced it with ellipses "...".)

And, again, the more you continue to try to
1 - defend him as "not rude but realistic", when he and you were refuted on that point and are "losing this uphill battle" (quoting your words, verbatum), and
2 - trying to elude responsibility for your role in his salient trolling
Is the more I truly grow to believe in my impression of you: as a single-minded, stubborn, unbending opinionated person who won't accept that the world is a much larger place, with valid thought processes and ideals that aren't your own.

You and EddieLee have pointed that fault out in our community, I'm telling you directly that, having conversed with you, you are in fact not guilt-free of the very problem that you so speak of. (And the fact that Benvolio was "by no means a friend of [yours]" doesn't make my pointing out your hypocrisy any less substantial.)

I'm just saying; bygones being bygones or not.

 

[belamyi]

^ Oh, just ignore The Costive Clique: they are spoilt brats gone saggy, and you can't tell your own mind and intentions better than they can do themselves for you.

 

[sixthson]

I saw him at the Mall of America a couple of days ago with his bride. They're on their honeymoon and they're expecting a baby in 6 months. They were sharing a lamb biyani and aloo paratha. Chai to drink for her, Indian beer for him.

So now you know.

 

[eddielee]

Well, paint me red and call me a tomato. I never would have guessed that cormac is married and expecting a baby.

 

[Level27]

Hmmm... hope he's doing ok, being a dad and all.