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Could you have a healthy sex life without

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an anus?

Not sure were to put this.

But the other night my friend and I watched Nip/Tuck and it showed that qQuetin had no penis so this got us talking. What if you had to have your anus removed could you have a healthy gay sex life?

I mean in some cases what if the person liked to be rimmed or was a bottom?
What if you couldn't meet a man who could accept it?

I know its all what if but it sure as hell got the both of us thinking? Although we didn't get answer a well just thought I'd ask here.
 
If he had no anus and like the sensation of being topped, then I'd rub and play with his buttcheeks! LOL.

But hey, gay sex isn't only about anal sex. You can still be intimate in other ways. I love cuddling and kissing and lots of body contact. That itself can get me off!

I'm sure he would meet a guy who would accept him because we date a guy because of him and not because of his dick or in this case, his ass!
 
confusedboy23 said:
If he had no anus and like the sensation of being topped, then I'd rub and play with his buttcheeks! LOL.

But hey, gay sex isn't only about anal sex. You can still be intimate in other ways. I love cuddling and kissing and lots of body contact. That itself can get me off!

I'm sure he would meet a guy who would accept him because we date a guy because of him and not because of his dick or in this case, his ass!
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That's what we came up with but at the same time what if the person's a real romatic who believes a major part of intimacy is having another person in you or even a partner believes that? See more and more questions came up for us than answers.
 
yeah I could have a happy sex life with out a buthole, but thankfully, I dont have to

I have known a few gay guys that were totally oral and never would have anal sex.

it absolutely turned them off

to each his own... as long as your sex life is making you happy and your partners dont feel shorted,( find someone with compatible interests) who cares
 
Basically what you're talking about is a colostomy, since you would still have to have a way to rid the body of fecal material. The colon and anus is the body's sewer system, and to close it off, would essentially be the same as a sewage backup.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colostomy

An anus is not necessary for sex since its main intended function was for the evacuation of the intestines and bowels.
 
the only thing that goes in my butt is a tounge...tried the anal thing several times in the past, and nope it does nothing for me, don't like to give or receive.. so guess Im one of those oral/stroking only kind of guys. and I have no complaints whatsoever with my sex life!
 
I think you have to separate the idea of "healthy" from the idea of "normal." Normality will be thrown to the winds if there is any major physical change in either partner that obviates a favorite sexual practice, or which impinges on a favorite fantasy, or which either partner finds repulsive.

But a sexual relationship can remain healthy if both partners are dedicated to regaining a healthy sex-life and work at building up a new set of practices. Human beings are incredibly adaptable creatures, all we have to do is open up our minds to the possibilities and be willing to make a lot of mistakes as we experiment.
 
You can have a very active sex life without an anus. Oral sex is wonderful, toys, fetish play. There are lots of ways to have sex that don't always involve penetration.
 
Yeah, I'm more about the cuddling and teasing and sweetness and that could more than take the place of sex if one of us couldn't and even if both of us could.
 
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