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Couldn't get it in

GayJerseyGuy

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Hey guys...

I "had" anal sex for the first time, but it didn't really work out all that well. I couldn't seem to get my cock inside of him. Was it my fault, his fault, both of our faults? I felt kinda stupid. I mean I was rock hard and horny as hell, but again, it was nearly impossible to get my cock in his ass. Can you guys tell me what we did wrong, and how to make it work better the next time?

Thanks!
 
Lubrication, foreplay, fingering, relaxing, patience, him pushing out as you push in. Well that's just the short list. I'm sure others will go into much more detail.
 
Three things that you'll need to do anal.

Condoms. Duh.

Lube. Lots of it. You might also try to put a bit on the inside, as it may make the experience more fun for you.

Time/patience. A lot of it.

Get the condom on and lubed up. Then get one of your pointer fingers lubed up, and start with that. Take your time getting it in. Move this way and that, in and out, taking your time. Once your first finger can get in all the way with no hassles, move on to two fingers. Again, take your time, in and out, this way and that. Finally, go to three. Once he can handle three, he should be able to handle your cock, too.

At this point, you may be flaccid again. No worries. start making out with your guy for awhile, play with his cock, whatever else you want. You should perk right back up again. :)

Lex
 
Did he have a big ass?

I was once doin a fat guy with this huge ass, not huge in that good way either, it was big but misshaped so that it was proportionally flat. Couldn't get my dick in, but I didn't sweat it.
 
Can you describe why you couldn't get it in? What did it seem like prevented you from getting it inside him? Had he ever bottomed before?
 
Hey GJG,

For my 2 cents though it sounds like one of 2 things.

One a lack of lube... not only the condom but lube a finger and not only enjoy some foreplay with your man but ensure you get lube inside him a little too...

And second... he just needs to relax... Try a different position.... some positions cause you to tense up so try a few new ones. Spooning with his leg over yours always seems to be a good one for relaxing as hes not trying to support his body weight in any way...

And any excuse to try new things cant be bad....
 
I've had this same problem and have come to the conclusion that I'm just not long enough, I'm about 5 inches. might also depend on how big his ass is. With us I had trouble getting to where I needed to be - couple of inches would have helped.

Not sure this has anything to do with you Jersey
 
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