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Craigslist ...does it work

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danny12321

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I have looked under men for men in craigslist many times. Does anyone have any stories? Does it work? Are the guys hot? Is it awkward when you first get there?
 
Though I have no experience with it, friends have told me it's mainly for hook-ups. And most of them, I'm told, can be rather creepy.

A word of advice, though, if you meet random people.
1) Give someone else this person's contact information
2) Let someone know where you'll be and for how long
3) If possible text someone something that could be used to help identify this person

It sounds a bit paranoid, but I have read horror stories.
 
Be cautious. The Seattle police busted over 20 men that were basically answering adds for prostitution. I'm sure there are legitimate adds for a 'hook up' but is it really very safe to answer one of these adds? If you need to have anonymous sex play it safer and visit the local bath house. At least you don't have to worry about cops arresting you while your there.
 
When I go to meet someone from the internet, I leave the address where I'm going on my desk, my instant messages on my computer with the directions to the place and if possible a cell phone number that the person has given me. I also take my cell phone (and make sure that it is fully charged) and place a call (usually to my voicemail) so my location can be tracked using the GPS on my phone.

It may sounds a little paranoid but that's what I do.
 
I have had 95% bad luck with Craig's List. It seems that most guys on there are only on there to collect pictures of other guys.

I always find it strange many men will post an ad WITHOUT pictures, but then demand that the person responding send them a picture of himself or the original poster will not respond.

I agree 100% with Looseliam's suggestions. But I would also do that for anyone I have met online.

There has to be an easier way than Craig's List.

Best Wishes!
 
nwdavis said:
At least you don't have to worry about cops arresting you while your there.
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You don't have to worry about the cops arresting you anywhere so long as you aren't doing anything illegal. Having anonymous sex with strangers is not illegal.

I honestly cannot understand why a gay man would ever pay anybody for sex. Is it really that hard to find a guy who will do it for free?!
 
Unless specific reasons were beleiveable, I am just naturally suspicious of anyone hiding behind the anonymity of the Internet.
Most places have bars, bookstores, gyms, bath houses or organizations where it is fairly easy to meet people on a face to face basis.
Maybe I'm just a dinosaur but it's best to go with your gut reaction.
 
I don't know if it works, but it's sure as hell funny reading the posts in m4m during a slow day at work; especially those guys who are hustling themselves (i.e., afternoon ma$$age was one of them). Last summer was a trip when guys kept "outting" other guys who were collecting pics, while others were slamming those asking for money for sex, when 99% of the posts are from guys wanting and offering sex for free.

Based on all that time dudes take to rip eachother a new asshole, it doesn't leave much time for them to get them filled :D <== just thought that one up...how clever was that?
 
Here's another thread about Craig's List:

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?p=2064524&highlight=craig's+list#post2064524

As I posted in the thread, it's hit or miss. The most taxing and obnoxious process in my opinion is simply weeding through the freaks. Perhaps my filtration process is better than most people's because once I've managed to do that and have decided to meet up with someone, I've generally had very good experiences. I've only had one experience that I would actually classify as bad, and a few others that weren't all that great, but for the most part, I've been happy with the quality of guys I've met through the site. It's just fighting your way through the bullshit on the site and many of the guys on it that's the most difficult part.
 
I just made a post on CL a few weeks ago. I had about the only ad that wasn't for sex.

If you post the ad, they do not have access to your e-mail adress until you e-mail them back. You can use the e-mail adress to go see if they have a profile on MySpace, GayWatch, or any of the other profile sites. You can usually get a better idea of them from those websites...
 
nwdavis said:
Be cautious. The Seattle police busted over 20 men that were basically answering adds for prostitution. I'm sure there are legitimate adds for a 'hook up' but is it really very safe to answer one of these adds? If you need to have anonymous sex play it safer and visit the local bath house. At least you don't have to worry about cops arresting you while your there.
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local bathhouse? what's that?
 
Yeah its basically for hookups. I've had a few successes, and a lot of flakes.

Tons of pic collectors, etc. I don't send my picture anymore until the person has sent me at least one coherent email.
 
if u live around new york check out localhookupz.com is very ez to meet people there .
 
I'm one of the flakes I think. I've answered a couple ads, exchanged a few photos but when it came right down to things, I've always bailed.

One guy got drunk the night before and sent me email that made me think twice about it. Probably for the better though.

I just start thinking about the fact that I'm about to give out my address to a total stranger for sex. I think about the guy in Seattle that did that and was killed, the guy in Tacoma that met a guy who brought a friend and raped him before leaving him face down and naked in his own front yard where he then died.

I've stopped looking at the ads, I've stopped posting them, I would just rather not.

There is an adult theater up the street where I can probably go for a blowjob or something if I really need sex that badly.
 
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