Craigslist

[wutthefk]

Okay, so I put up a post on Craigslist under casual encounters to meet a guy to suck off/ mess around with NSA. I got two replies...should I meet up with these people in real life?

 

[ltripley]

well, there are a few things to consider. Where do you live? Where will you be meeting these guys and have they given you pics, phone number, etc?

Ive met up with guys on there and never had a problem but I live in a pretty safe area...

 

[Orlandude]

Whether or not you live in a safe area, when you choose to meet others in that way (Craigslist or any hookup site) you should meet in a neutral, public place FIRST. Meet at a coffee shop or somewhere neutral for a beer. That way there is no pressure. All of those kinds of sites scare me too. You really don't know who you are talking with and all the demands about exchanging pictures is no guarantee of anything. Pictures can be, and often are, phony and people lie. Then there's the issue of where you will have your fun. Most of them will not host. They do not want you coming to their house and knowing where they live.

If you had no intentions of meeting, why would you even post? That's a huge complaint about those kinds of sites. So many posts from people who are really not planning to meet anyone.

 

[racer2438]

get more info and never meet alone, go to a open public place and see first. get picutre of him.

never go alone with him to a private place on first meet.


be safe.

But why do you ask if it ok to do when you already decided to place the ad after the fact.

you put the cart before the horse.

it's like your asking permission for something you have alreeady done.??

 

[Storybook_Man]

I posted quite a few times on Craigslist, got lots of e-mails but only met up with about 3 people from there. Its hit or miss. But most of the time people play games... Good luck, but be safe! You never know whats going to happen in this world on sites like that.

 

[ELAINE]

Meet the person at a safe place and get to know them first. Some times you just want to hook up with some one quickly and just have great sex, but no matter what, your safety has to always come first.

 

[closet case]

My question is how the hell to get an ad there in the first place. Every time I try, it gets blocked. I worded it so as to not violate their terms and it still gets blocked. Am I missing something?

 

[drinksinme]

I'm iffy about craigslist too. A lot of the posts sound fake. So I haven't posted anything yet, though I can't find a friendly real web site for bicurious people in ohio to meet flirt, trade emails chat ect....

 

[TongueTied]

I would recommend that you sign up for some other sites, like dudesnude, manhunt, or adam4adam. Some of them you have to pay for all the benefits, but I think well worth it if you are going to be meeting men for sex.

You have to be cautious about meeting anyone online, but at least those sites have profiles that need to be filled out. Obviously, anyone can lie, but lots of guys have profiles on several sites and I try to check them all out and see if their info matches up. Also, these sites let you chat a bit before agreeeing to meet. You do get some feeling for what the other guy is all about. Craigslist seems like a one shot deal, with no way of verifying the other guy.

I have not met up with many men online at all, but the ones I have were from the above mentioned sites, and everything turned out OK. Just be very, very careful, and don't let your dick do the thinking.

 

[masterdaveabq]

craigslist is useless in my opinion and experience. Its mostly full of game players and when you do post an ad it get flagged for no reason, so many ads flagged off and they mark your ip address so your ads get blocked and never show up. I stopped even looking there

 

[boxerbrief]

IMO craigslist is evil. i'd play it safe and stay away. j/o is the only safe sex these days

 

[hopnung]

If the M4M encounters begets the same results as the apartment roommate needed/apartment searches, then Jesus Christ... you had better triple-bag that shit....

 

[drinksinme]

Yeah well thanks for confirming my thoughts on it. Damn it, now what am I gonna do? heh.

 

[Rex]

I've had some good experiences from craigslist. Like someone said, it's hit or miss.

Most guys who reply to ads are brain dead and usually ignore simple requests and others expect you to meet them up with no picture at all. Some of them are ridiculous but I've had a few encounters with some insanely hot bi/curious dudes.

 

[justaguy1988]

I met a middle aged couple (man and woman) on craigslist. We met in public before anything ever took place. The husband and I had sex while the wife watched as she really got off from seeing a guy (me) being fucked. It was pretty good except for the fact that the guy got a little too anxious and literally shoved at first and felt like it abou tore me open. I went ahead and let him fuck me but at my pace and my ass never has been right since. I think I got a fissure out of the deal that keeps getting irritated and doesn't want to completely heal. Haven't met with them since.

 

[ELAINE]

I'm a female and put the same type of ad out. My meetings have gone well, to say the least. Just play it safe.