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HourglassGuy
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I went to a guy's house the other night, a former co-worker of mine. Physically, he's pretty cute, but his personality was creeping me out a bit... his interests were odd, he does lots of drugs... so when he tried to have sex with me, I turned him down. He didn't want to take no for an answer and kept pushing and pushing the issue, to the point that it was starting to become a little creepy... especially when it got to the point that he was pretty much laying on top of me. He even stuck his hand down his pants and started getting off in front of me, and I really didn't know how to respond, so I just asked him to give me a tour of his place before I left.
That's when he asked me if I wanted to see his basement, because it was so large. Welcoming any opportunity to get out of that situation, I was like, "sure." Bad move. Once we got down to the basement, I think he was trying to scare me into having sex with him. He started saying things like, "See? I could do anything down here and nobody would see or hear a thing, and I could hide anything down here, too.... I should test that theory right now." Uh... okay. Then he shot me this crazy, creepy look... like something you'd see in a Hannibal Lector movie. Part of me wanted to fake a laugh, hoping it was just a joke. But it made the hair on the back of my neck stand up, and I was insanely creeped out, and he knew it.
At that point, I was tired of being nice. I told him that we should go back upstairs to his bed... which he loved hearing. Once we got out of the basement, he said that he had to use the bathroom first. Meanwhile, as he was taking care of business in the bathroom, I grabbed my coat and ran out, LoL!
The bad thing is, I forgot to grab my movie that I was letting him borrow (Labyrinth). He left a message on my machine today, he sounded rather annoyed, and told me he'd be by sometime soon to bring back the movie I let him borrow and said we'd have to hang out again sometime. What the hell?!
So, needless to say, I'm not looking forward to seeing or hearing from him again. I would call and tell him just to keep the movie, but I'm afraid he'd get pissed and turn into a big psycho stalker. I'm not afraid of his physicality -- I could kick his ass in a heartbeat. But I'd really rather just disassociate myself with him entirely and be done with it.
What should I do?
That's when he asked me if I wanted to see his basement, because it was so large. Welcoming any opportunity to get out of that situation, I was like, "sure." Bad move. Once we got down to the basement, I think he was trying to scare me into having sex with him. He started saying things like, "See? I could do anything down here and nobody would see or hear a thing, and I could hide anything down here, too.... I should test that theory right now." Uh... okay. Then he shot me this crazy, creepy look... like something you'd see in a Hannibal Lector movie. Part of me wanted to fake a laugh, hoping it was just a joke. But it made the hair on the back of my neck stand up, and I was insanely creeped out, and he knew it.
At that point, I was tired of being nice. I told him that we should go back upstairs to his bed... which he loved hearing. Once we got out of the basement, he said that he had to use the bathroom first. Meanwhile, as he was taking care of business in the bathroom, I grabbed my coat and ran out, LoL!
The bad thing is, I forgot to grab my movie that I was letting him borrow (Labyrinth). He left a message on my machine today, he sounded rather annoyed, and told me he'd be by sometime soon to bring back the movie I let him borrow and said we'd have to hang out again sometime. What the hell?!
So, needless to say, I'm not looking forward to seeing or hearing from him again. I would call and tell him just to keep the movie, but I'm afraid he'd get pissed and turn into a big psycho stalker. I'm not afraid of his physicality -- I could kick his ass in a heartbeat. But I'd really rather just disassociate myself with him entirely and be done with it.
What should I do?

