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Crossing The Line With Your Best Friend

What should I do

  • Take the leap

    Votes: 36 66.7%

  • Back away

    Votes: 18 33.3%
  • Total voters
    54
  • Poll closed .
paraman25 said:
Yea, things are coming along great. He came out to his folks yesterday and that went extremely well. I was very surprised because his parents can be pretty harsh. He talked to his sister first and she set the ground work for it. Things are happening really fast and I still have a bit of "WOW FACTOR" going on, but I am just taking it a day at a time. I can say this that is freaking great to have someone to share things with and who really gets you. It was defenitly worth it.
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wow - this is great news. I'm so happy for both of you!
 
Thanks for the update, Mike! And, I'm sure, ALL of Us "JUBbers", are certainly looking forward to many more!! ..|

WOW! This is all going much better than might have been expected! Seems as though most Everything is falling "Just Right"!! The only possible "problem" still remaining seems to, maybe, be "Wife One". :grrr:

I'm sure The Kids are going to be fine with it! Youngsters are SO Resilient, and might just surprise You Guys as to how quickly they'll come to terms! :D

Seems most ALL is "Coming Up Roses"!! AWESOME!! (group) :hurray: (!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
yay!!! It is very good to hear that things are finally starting to come together! I wish you luck in your life with him. You both are very lucky to have found each other!
 
if anyone ever needed to go for it, you need to


paraman25 said:
My best friend and I have been in each others lives since we were 5 yrs old. Shared almost every part of our lives with each other except one thing. "Sex" We both grew up knowing that we both had an attraction for each other but both of us coming from a very strick christian background, never acted on it. We always just thought that it was because we were so close to each other emotionally and that the love we shared was based on that and nothing more. Over the years we have gone through girl friends and marriages, well he has, I have never been married, but had girlfriends for the obivious reasons. But a few years ago we crossed that line, a night of drinking and strip clubs left us feeling a bit frustrated, and acted upon that, just your basic j/o session and a lot of touching, nothing more because we didn't really know were to go with it. He knows about my bi-sexual nature, and he really can't admit to himself about his. After that night we didn't talk much and he did what I still will not understand, he got involved with a girl on the net and married her. It was so fast, that he was obiviously running from me and his feelings, however, we are still talking and see each other often, but never about that night or even got close to that line again. Yesterday he told me that he misses me and wishes that things in his life had ended up different, because he is now divorcing wife number 3. He said maybe what he was looking for has been right in front of me all along.

I couldn't make eye contact with him at all after that. My head was spinning, and now I feel I am standing on that edge again and not knowing what to do. To quote the movie "Brokeback Mountian" "I miss you so much that I can hardly stand it" That is just the tip of my feelings for him, our life has mimmiced BBM in so many ways.

Basically I am asking what should I do? Take the leap and see where it goes or just back up and hold tight to my feelings for him.
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What a beautiful story of two guys who deserve a warm, loving relationship with each other. Your love has been there but in hiding since early childhood so like the Sunday School song, "hide it under a bushel, no, I'm gonna let it shine", that's what you are finally doing, letting the light of your love out. Warmest blessings to each of you, life is going to be good for both of you.
 
sounds to me like he made the only move he is currently capable of, and the ball has bounced to you.time to hit it back as only you can do and see if he can catch it. i've had the same issues with several close friends over the years, and have always chickened out when push came to shove. one of these friends has since died, and it kills me to think of him and wonder "what if". i say take a chance.
 
oops- did not realize there was a page 2 to this . very happy to hear how well everything is going, and continued good luck.
 
I wsh you guys the best of luck in your budding relationship
 
Mike & Mark,

Somehow missed this thread in its infancy, but I just wanted to say CONGRATS on finding each other finally ... a beautiful story indeed! Keep us posted on the happy days ahead!

(*8*)
 
Don't do it.

The best you can hope for is he letting you suck his penis to climax.

Don't push it though. After he says no for the 10th time give up and respect his hetersexuality.
 
I just melted. I am so happy for you two. Don't let the petty stuff bother you. all bad deeds get their reward. also, yah666, i feel bad for you man. I suggest you read above, because I am not very wise in these manners.
 
Mark ...

I can completely understand the "clingy thing" at the beginning of a New relationship. It's almost an "automatic" human reaction. And though "this one" seems Very New to Both of You, in it's current state, it's been going on for years! ..|

I'm sure you've heard it said that ... if you Love someone, you must be willing to let them go. And if they return to you, only then, are they truly "yours".

Now ... take a breath ... and think! How many times has Mike "come back" to You already??

Keep that in mind, Heh? (group)

You Two are just SO ... :hurray:(!w!):luv2:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
paraman25 said:
Hey guys just an update, I had to have my buddies wife arrested. I didn't do it, had someone else. She was witnessed keying my vehicle. Saying I was pissed off was putting it mildly. But she is in jail and on probation so I don't know who long she will be there. Mark told me she called him crying and wanting him to bail her out. He didn't of course. Things are going great between Mark and I. We will move in together Aug 1st. Thanks again for all the great advice.
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I would make sure that she pays to restore your car to a condition better than it was - and pay a hefty penalty on top of it. Use the profits to place fresh flowers on a weekly basis in you new home.
 
And how long you can love someone!

This is like.....a fantasy I wish I could have been in.......growing up great friends and falling in love together. I guess it does take a lot of patience to get there though.

Congratulations to you two. :)
 
Mark and Mike ... Mike and Mark ... M&M ... are you kidding?! :eek: "We" LOVE "mushy stuff" Here! And most of "Us" don't get enough!! ..|(group):hurray:(!w!)

As for "XW3", it might be time to take the B*tch to court! I'm thinking civil charges of Fraud, Embezzelment, and an additional "fun" charge for Harrassment! Might even get her to Shut Up and Butt Out!! ..|

Good Luck with that one!! :cool:

And ... of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Sometimes you just have to cross the line because sometimes a friend is just way too hot. Who cares if he cuts you off at least you got to suck him off.
 
I would think if you were married when she purchased the house with your money and did not disclose it during the divorce proceeding that you have a legitimate claim to at least half of it's value! Depending on the laws in your state! I would check with a lawyer! Hard as it maybe--remember she already screwed you out of your other house!!
 
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