Cruising tips?

[kolicik]

Cheers from London,
I wanted to see a cruising place, and it was my first experience. Since I'm into sneaker, I went to a place where guys only wearing sneakers. The thing I really fancied a guy and either I wanted to fuck him or him to lick my penis but I was not sure he was bottom or not. So I just passed by and after seeing him giving head to a guy I really thought how stupid and inexperienced I was. So I left.
What are the rituals and how to be sure a guy is into sex. I'm top and not into sucking but BJ or HJ sounds good, am I being too selfish or is it normal in cruising places

Any tips welcomed

 

[racer2438]

Cant tell what they do in the UK.

but one for sure is make sure there are no cops around, and check for any news of guy's being caught and you know not to got here at least.

And always play safe...condoms...maybe let someone know were your going to ---just in case of problems..

 

[NineOfClubs]

Cruising as we once knew it is dead.

It all happens on line, internet, these days...

 

[XLeatherX]

Cruising as we once knew it is dead.

It all happens on line, internet, these days...

9ofclubs-It is? I know of several places where cruising and public sex go on.

OP-You'll know if a guy is interested in you. Try talking to them, telling them what you want to do with them sexually, reading their body language, and if you're doing j/o and getting oral sex those are very safe.

If they're there with you and naked/having sex like that then it is not going to be difficult to find someone who wants to have sex with you if you want to.

 

[theplayerking]

Count to three: Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

If a guy holds your gaze for more than three seconds, he's interested.

 

[MrBubulino]

Cruising as we once knew it is dead.

It all happens on line, internet, these days...

That's what George Michael complains about...

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Any tips welcomed

- Acquaint yourself with the legislation; in the Netherlands discrete cruisers cannot normally be arrested or fined, although in some places the police will try.
- Take lots of condoms, tissues and lube. A pen and small notebook will come in handy too.
- Don't take anything you might regret losing, just a little money in case you might need some, but leave your passport, bankcard and other valuables such as jewelery or expensive watches at home. Cellphone is best left at home too.
- Wear easy clothing that you don't mind soiling (unless they are items you are used to and find sexy). I usually wear trainers.
- Practice safe sex.
- Behave as civilly as can be expected. Don't be rude, but don't be afraid to politely refuse sex you don't want.
- Unless your a kung Fu expert, avoid groups of non-gay looking lads (
they're most likely out to have some 'fun' at the expense of the cruisers) like the plague. Feel free, however, to key their car when they're not looking.
- Be clean. Chew gum.