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there is a guy who sits next to me in my french class, he is really witty, smart and funny. I have a crush on him but im not sure if he iz gay, i mean i think he is but i dont know for sure, i hate to list steriotypes but he wears a lot of American Eagle, is in musicals, one of his favorite movies is the notebook, how can i go about finding out if he iz and telling him i am...advice would be appreciated thanx
 
I would spend more time with him. Get to know him better. I think that would be the best way to find out.

And oh, a cute boy and he speaks French... heaven! =]
 
I agree with looseliam's advice. Strike up a conversation with him and if he is interested the whole thing will follow naturally.
 
Ask him out for coffee or lunch or something--and then talk. It's not a date at all. But it can become one if you both want it to be.
 
hes gay.

hate to use stereotypes... BUT, there is a reason we have them of course. Musicals, A+F or A+E or whatever abbreviations it is, The Notebook? (omg, i actually really though that was an average movie, not as great as everybody says it is).

Such a combo screams gay to me.

Come on, in the back of your mind you know its true.
 
Why not ask him if he wants to get together to practice French? Seems like a good reason to spend some time with him.
 
The other thing is on his myspace it says tht he is "in a relationship" but on his top friends there isn't any one tht could be his BF or GF, his top friend is his brother, so idk but i can kind of see it in his eyes that he is gay though, and we kind of flirt a little like by the look in each others eyes but if he's not gay i dont wana scare him away cuz he is a really great guy.
 
I don't think you would scare him at all. His interests indicate that he'd feel quite at homo having a gay friend whatever his own sexual inclinations. I wonder if you're the one who's scared: if he was gay, and he liked you, then the whole school would know! OMG!

And...did you know - a fair-haired woman is b-l-o-n-d-e but a fair-haired man is simply b-l-o-n-d?
 
People ask this all the time.

Just simply ask him, "are you gay?"

If he is he will say, "yes" if not, "no." simple pimple.

Why waste money on coffee and all this underhanded behavior?

Be direct and upfront man.
 
if he writes "is" like "iz" then he certainly is gay lol
 
Say something like "I don't know if you are gay or not, but if you are, would you like to go out sometime? If you're not, I would still like to be friends with you."

I think the fact that your gaydar is going off is the best indication that he might be gay. If you don't take a risk, you will never know.
 
I told my best friend about him and she IM'd him asking him if he was gay he said no but wanted to know who wanted to know, he said tht he woldnt care, he has a lot of gay friends, and he actually said that even if he was he would have to have known the person for a while. which i think is a pretty good indication tht he iz gay. wut do u think?
 
Mate,

If you like this guy, if you hope that there could be something with this guy...then snooping and hiding is not the best way to start.

Friendships and relationships are built on trust, honesty and respect. Its about 2 people who care about each other enough to be truthful and loyal and be able to tell each other anything without fear....

Besides mate, if he knew the question had come from you...another guy..and maybe someone he likes too...dont you think that you might have got a different answer?

Show him that you have respect enough for himself and yourself to be honest and open. Go and talk to him. It could be the start of something good...take the chance.
 
Gays, especially in high school are very scared creatures. We like to play it safe. You playing it safe and him playing it safe will only lead to disapointment for you will just pass each other. The only way you will know is by asking him directly. If he is gay, he doesn't have a problem with gay people/himself but at the same time isn't out. If he is not gay he doesn't have a problem with gay people based off the aim conversation.

Thus tell him for you will gain a friend and/or a dating material
 
He made it clear that he was open to having gay friends, therefore I would say you should tell him your gay. My guess is that by his response he is just playing it safe, but the last part doesn't sound like something a straight guy would say.
 
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