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Crush on a straight guy

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Noahchab

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So i have this guy best friend who i didn't come out to, I known him for 5 years now and i’ve been in love with him for nearly a year, and it really hurt me because i don’t want to tell him that i love him cause i don’t want to lose him. He’s straight i’m sure of that because he talks to me about the girls he have sex with and one time when i was using his computer i saw his sextape with his girlfriend.
He’s so hot and have a great personality but sometimes i feel like he knows that i’m gay, because one time he asked me if i had feeling for him and i said no, or an other time we were with an homophobic friend who said gays were disgusting, and he took my hand in front of him and we walked like that for a few minutes. He also do things to tease me like once we were in class and he put his hand on my thigh and slide it to my crotch and when i got a boner he removed it.
But he also do sweet things like calling me kitten or saying that i’m more important than his girlfriend and when he comes home we sleep in the same bed and everytime i spoon him and i think he can feel my dick pressing against his ass even if he’s wearing boxers.
So i’m want to know i should try to see if i have a chance with him?. Or if not how can i forget my feelings.
 
Let me get this right.........he has asked you before if you have feelings for him, tells you you're more important than his girlfriend, held hands, calls you Kitten, and you spoon in the same bed. Sounds to me that he's given every signal in the world that he is interested in you romantically. I'm sure it's tricky with a friendship involved, but I'd try to take it a step further. Why not watch a little straight porn together and see what progresses.
 
Noahchab said:
...So i’m want to know i should try to see if i have a chance with him?. Or if not how can i forget my feelings.
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Your post is one of several threads that we have that have the same premise: "We're really close friends..." or "He's my best friend" and "We've been friends for X years"... but then there's the statement "He doesn't know I'm gay".

No matter where this relationship is going to go in the future, there's an obstacle that has to be overcome: he doesn't know you're gay. He's sending you mixed signals by doing things that he would do with a girlfriend; the question is whether he would be comfortable doing those things once he knows you're gay.

As for forgetting your feelings: why would you want to? There's plenty of guys- gay or straight- who have really complicated feelings about their male friends. At this point, you have to decide whether you want to have a really close friend or you want to risk it all for what could be a very short-lived sexual relationship with him. Either way, if there's going to be any kind of future for the two of you, you need to be honest with him about being gay.

It's not just about this guy- in order for you to find a relationship and to have that relationship be part of your life, the first step is be open about who you are with the people who are important in your life.
 
Jesus, I have actually fucked a straight friend of mine who did not call me pet names and spoon with me, LOL. Make the move already!
 
KaraBulut has it perfectly. I don't think any relationship or friendship can begin or survive on secrets. I suggest you tell him because you should be honest and go from there.
 
Started out as just head, quite often, until one day things changed. It has only happened twice but Im thinking #3 should be coming up in the next few weeks or months :-p Send me a message if you want to hear or see more!
 
I fucked straight friends and people in the past it just happen with out all the extra stuff. I fucked a friend it turned into me giving him a blow job and he kept asking me about being fucked and tons of questions. I worked on his ass and fucked him and he won't stop blowing up my phone and having hissy fits that we can't "Chill".

Honestly when your spooning with him just start touching him.
 
Have a talk with your friend and come out to him. If he's interested--he'll give you the signals.
 
Honey go for it. It seems like he's sending you signals that you're oblivious to. I know all too well how it is loving a straight boy I've loved a guy since we were in high school...John, he was on the football and baseball team he is completely straight and absolutely NOT DOWN to play. He keeps getting in relationships with these bitches who treat him like shit. He is a fucking prince to these bitches and they just walk all over him and tear his heart apart he was even going to marry this one whore til she wasn't so careful and he walked in on her fucking around with a dude from her work! He isn't ugly in fact he is beautiful and fit, very muscular but not conceited very down to earth and just because he is pretty doesn't mean he's stupid in fact he had some of the highest grades in our class! I have loved him ever since I set eyes on him that first day in world history when this tall green eyed blonde cutie whirled around the corner and sat down in an empty desk. Heaven on legs! I just wish life gives him a break and he finds everything his heart desires, he deserves it. I will always love you John!!
 
Granted this is true he seems like a great guy, holding your hand in front of that dickhead was a fantastic gesture, though given your report he mightn't be straight at all :lol:

If you are ok with him sleeping with womens, confess to him. But careful... he might hurt your feelings...
 
i love my straight friend too but he never love me ^^ :mrgreen: , he let me do anything i want with him, i can play with his nipple, take off his pants, jerk off his dick as i want and i never saw him uncomfortable or complain anything, sometime i wanna suck his dick but i don't know why i don't do that, something in mine stop me , after one year i live with him in dorm student. he dropout college and comback to his hometown just for near his girlfriend and start to study at a new college. and that is a story 2 year ago.
 
Thought for the day: Do you have any women friends? How do or would you feel if they told you they're in "love" with you? Do you think, "Well, they're my friend so that means I HAVE to be their Dildo?" I will LOVE they're pussy and probably change my world perspective, orientation and kick us up to the next level....because I really like my friend? WTF? In less than 30 seconds, she will be an ex-friend. Half the world has a dick, but you have one special friend. Don't fuck it up. Enjoy your friendship. Do not sexualize and objectify a good man who accepts your friendship.
 
Go for it. Right after my divorce a close straight friend of mine made a move on me and now we are in a relationship
 
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