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crush on co-worker bad experience

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About 5 years ago I had a crush on a male co-worker and wrote about it in this forum, I didn’t say anything to him about liking him, anyway ignoring me and going out of his way to avoid me - he prints pages from this forum showing them to other co-workers. Having humiliating me and dragged my good name through the mud I end up having to leave the company.
About 2 years ago I asked him on facebook why he did this, again ignoring me he does the same thing in my new place of work. Managers deny anything has happened in both occasions and have no backup from other employees who also ignore me.
He doesn’t realise how much he has damaged my mental health and career prospects, but why would he do this to me (once is bad enough but twice is too much), is he a homophobic jerk, what should I do about the whole situation?
 
Ditto from me. He's out to hurt you and won't deal with you. Nothing more will come of this unless sometime in the future he has an epiphany and makes amends, but don't count on that. I'm curious as to how he knew it was you writing of him on these forums v
 
Find a new job with another employer and stop posting in public forums,too? Seems like a good time to move on.
 
loki81 said:
explain to HR that a former coworker is trying to harass you and stop posting personal information on public forums?
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This exactly, especially the HR part.
 
I didn’t write anything personal like names of people or companies, I came to this forum at the time for advice on how to deal with my feelings for this man in general.
 
How did he know your identity on the site?
 
A major lesson why one should never mix sex/ crushes/ anything like with co-workers. You must of not learned from the first time and still went back again and had it done all over again..

it never ends good.. never.

Now you know what not to do next time, and stop post pictures or info about your self for a while and let it cool off..
 
sixthson said:
How did he know your identity on the site?
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That’s my question too – I saw him 2 years ago with a girlfriend so I don’t even understand why he would have read this forum at all anyway.
His behaviour from the moment I met him has been odd – I am sorry I ever met him and hope I never see him again.
 
I'm sorry this has happened to you. No one deserves this kind of punishment. You're saying that he got enough information from what you wrote to assume that you wrote it? Wasn't there anyway to just deny it and turn it on him for going to a gay forum? God, the ego and evil in him!

Is he still reading JUB? Time for a name change and stop writing about him except in a pm to someone.
 
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