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Crush on straight friend/coworker

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I have a semi-crush on my coworker. I say semi, because I think my crush on him comes from the fact that he's straight, and I'm attracted to straight guys for some reason.

Background info: I work day shift, he works night shift, so we see each other only 2 hours max per week. We joke and talk while we see each other, so its a good buddy relationship.

So about 4 months ago I text him asking if he would ever let me give him a bj, and that I wouldn't tell anyone...no response. The next week I see him at work and he tells me how I send weird texts, and I acted oblivious by saying "which text?". He said that maybe it wasnt from me and the conversation ends. That night I text him again and say "the text u asked about at work was from me, and the question was real". Still no response, it has not been brought up at work and we continue to go on joking and talking like normal.

I REALLY want an answer from him and would like to know if he would ever let me give him a bj. I think he thinks the texts were a joke, and doesnt know I'm serious about it.

Should I text him again?
 
No. You need to stop. Respect his boundaries and move along.
 
You dont ask a Str8 friend if he wants a bj by text ! Perhaps one night face to face watching porn and drinking a few beers :)
 
We dont see each other outside of work. And I didnt want to say anything at work, so that's why I texted.

The drunk routine worked on another "straight" friend, and he even asked me to do it again a few weeks ago. But since this is a coworker who I never see outside of work, I took the text route.
 
Well then maybe mention that you two should hang sometime. After a few times of chilling outside of work, go from there.
 
hola1234 said:
I have a semi-crush on my coworker. I say semi, because I think my crush on him comes from the fact that he's straight, and I'm attracted to straight guys for some reason.

Background info: I work day shift, he works night shift, so we see each other only 2 hours max per week. We joke and talk while we see each other, so its a good buddy relationship.

So about 4 months ago I text him asking if he would ever let me give him a bj, and that I wouldn't tell anyone...no response. The next week I see him at work and he tells me how I send weird texts, and I acted oblivious by saying "which text?". He said that maybe it wasnt from me and the conversation ends. That night I text him again and say "the text u asked about at work was from me, and the question was real". Still no response, it has not been brought up at work and we continue to go on joking and talking like normal.

I REALLY want an answer from him and would like to know if he would ever let me give him a bj. I think he thinks the texts were a joke, and doesnt know I'm serious about it.

Should I text him again?
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NO, he already know u text him.
He'll let you know if he wants a bj ok. :)
 
TopherGF said:
I would say that his lack of response and general ignoring of the message would suggest that it is something he would not be interested in. I'd just drop it if I were you... but that's me.
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Yeah there's also that.
 
Don't text too many times or he may think that you stalks him.
 
Uh...if twice he didn't respond, then I think that's an obvious answer. Geez.
 
Why didn't you ask him face to face?

He did bring it up
The next week I see him at work and he tells me how I send weird texts, and I acted oblivious by saying "which text?"
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but you didn't use the opening

I'd let it go and fast. As SW asked below about sexual harassment policies at your work you could find yourself out of work

It isn't worth it
 
I make porn for a living and if I did what you did, I'd be fired and probably black-listed from the industry.

You're being a creep.
 
Soilwork said:
I make porn for a living and if I did what you did, I'd be fired and probably black-listed from the industry.

You're being a creep.
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Pretty much this.

You've sent 2 texts and gotten 2 replies. Now you want to pursue it further? Maybe you need this guy to have you fired for sexual harassment for you to understand what "No" means.
 
Well,you have put him on the spot and he does not want to respond.
If it was me I would expect you to ask me face to face.
You are making it sound like a sleazy , inconsequential act.
You need to work on your technique.
 
He has made it VERY clear that he is not interested.

All you are going to do by pursuing this is to loose your "good buddy" relationship.
 
don't drag it, his no response means NO, if he wants one he'll know where to go ;)
 
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