Cumming after penetration

[AresIncarnate]

I'm seeing this guy and every time we try to have anal sex, he immediately cums after I penetrate him. Longest he's made it so far is about 2 minutes. Shortest was <10 seconds. We try to go slow and hold off, but he cums without touching himself.

Anyone ever been with someone like this?

He says it's because the lube sucks and it hurts a little. Seems like it would take longer if it hurt.

 

[G-Lexington]

All I can say is I wish MY response to things not working correctly (and a bit of pain) was a hands-free orgasm...

Why not get him off some other way...and THEN top him? Presumably the first orgasm will take the edge off, and he can ride the anal for a lot longer without hitting orgasm.

Lex

 

[AresIncarnate]

It's hard enough to get him to mess around in the first place. No way I'm going to be able to get him to do two rounds in one night any time soon.

 

[AresIncarnate]

We do. If he's in the mood to do anything, he likes sex. He's just not usually in the mood to do anything.

 

[G-Lexington]

Then I have a better suggestion - find yourself a better sex partner.

Lex

 

[bulge]

I never penetrate as it always makes things too short

 

[Ram]

Smack him and tell him to stop jizzing about like his grandpa. Then wear the ugliest underwear you can find in the local old folks home, don't brush your teeth for at least two weeks and let out a long, wet fart every time you make eye contact with him whenever you have sex. This will delay his cumming... and his erection.

But maybe you can practice with him. Mutual JO but no cumming. Let him program his cock to last longer.

 

[Shepherd 2]

Frankly my dear, I just do not believe the scene in this thread. It does not add up.
Shep+

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Invest in some rubber bands.

 

[Sam Blum]

Hmm, I think I'm with Ram suggesting you slap him, but then tell him to smarten the hell up and put in a bit of effort! Or perhaps there's a reason that he doesn't want to play. Is he depressed, or unwell? Sex isn't only about cumming, or maybe he hasn't learnt that sex can actually continue and be fun even after one partner or both reaches orgasm.

There are seminars for gay sex topics run by various organisations where I live - perhaps you have one or more organisation near you that does something similar? Perhaps you can both learn to make your play together more exciting and desirable for both of you. Good luck.

 

[AresIncarnate]

Shep - I speak the truth. Granted, we've only tried 3 times.

But maybe you can practice with him. Mutual JO but no cumming. Let him program his cock to last longer.

Yeah, that's the plan.

Or perhaps there's a reason that he doesn't want to play. Is he depressed, or unwell?

Yeah, he's under a lot of stress and not handling it all that well. I think he only messes around in the first place to make me happy. He gets aroused super quick, but he just doesn't want to do anything, and when he does, it's less than spectacular.

Me, on the other hand, I get ultra horny being around him, but I can respect that he's not. It's still frustrating.