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Curious Gay Guys

I'm sure you've had sex with a fair amount of women soilwork.
You wrote about once identifying as bisexual.

As for myself I've only been with one woman. I did it to try it and it wasn't for me so it pretty much showed me that I'm gay.
 
TheTrish said:
Hi, 3! ;) Well, what did you enjoy about it? How does it comparre to being with a guy? Are you now "bi?"

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What did I enjoy about it? The same things I enjoy whenever I have sex. The pressing of bodies, the skin texture, kissing, sucking her breast and vagina... penetration was nice too, not as tight as anal, with me on my back being lazy and just letting myself enjoy the sensations (until she got tired of it and urged me to get it over with, lol).

What I didn't like was that she wasn't really into it and so wasn't really responsive the way I like and expect... but then neither was I into her, so I didn't really care about giving her pleasure. Normally when I'm with a guy I'm a lot more tuned in to him and how he is responding, even in the fleetest of encounters... and of course I'm much more turned on myself when it's with a guy.

Am I now bi? Although I like women emotionally and am attractive to many (all women according to some recent comments from some of my women friends) and could "perform" with them... what for? I'm more interested in pursuing/being pursued by guys, so why bother with women? So no, I don't consider myself bi.
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XLeatherX said:
I'm sure you've had sex with a fair amount of women soilwork.
You wrote about once identifying as bisexual.
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Yes. That's true. I did.

But like many men who identify as "bisexual," I was just saying it because I incorrectly believed that it made me more "straight acting" or more socially acceptable.. not because I actually found women attractive.
 
Well, I think it's possible for an otherwise gay guy to get drunk enough or seduced into having sex with a woman under the right circumstances. Just like it's possible for an otherwise straight guy to get drunk enough or seduced into having sex with a guy.

Though, I think the likelihood of this happening is much less because, I imagine, there are more gay & bi guys wanting to have sex with straight men than there are straight women wanting to have sex with gay men. For gay/bi guys it's a conquest to sleep with a straight guy... I don't think straight women would view sleeping with a gay guy in those terms, and guys tend to be much more pushy about sex, so there is also a persistence factor.
 
3nipples said:
What did I enjoy about it? The same things I enjoy whenever I have sex. The pressing of bodies, the skin texture, kissing, sucking her breast and vagina... penetration was nice too, not as tight as anal, with me on my back being lazy and just letting myself enjoy the sensations (until she got tired of it and urged me to get it over with, lol).

What I didn't like was that she wasn't really into it and so wasn't really responsive the way I like and expect... but then neither was I into her, so I didn't really care about giving her pleasure. Normally when I'm with a guy I'm a lot more tuned in to him and how he is responding, even in the fleetest of encounters... and of course I'm much more turned on myself when it's with a guy.

Am I now bi? Although I like women emotionally and am attractive to many (all women according to some recent comments from some of my women friends) and could "perform" with them... what for? I'm more interested in pursuing/being pursued by guys, so why bother with women? So no, I don't consider myself bi.
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Hi, 3! ;) Exciting answer! hehe So, it was good, her performance was bland. You need a HOTTIE! LOL

T
 
dfwjacker said:
Well, I think it's possible for an otherwise gay guy to get drunk enough or seduced into having sex with a woman under the right circumstances. Just like it's possible for an otherwise straight guy to get drunk enough or seduced into having sex with a guy.

Though, I think the likelihood of this happening is much less because, I imagine, there are more gay & bi guys wanting to have sex with straight men than there are straight women wanting to have sex with gay men. For gay/bi guys it's a conquest to sleep with a straight guy... I don't think straight women would view sleeping with a gay guy in those terms, and guys tend to be much more pushy about sex, so there is also a persistence factor.
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Hi, dfw! ;) Good answer, well-thought-out about guys being more pushy.

T
 
Hey Trish,

Nice thread topic. I've been running this question through my mind for the last few weeks. The only reason why I haven't asked my JUB friends what they think, is due to the insane amount of bi-hatred that seems to run rampant here.

I was married and in a 6 year relationship with a women. I love this women to this day and HATE, absolutely HATE that we're not together anymore. My first noticeable attraction was to a guy. My first sexual experience was with a guy. My fist love, was with my wife. At different times through out our relationship I would fantasize about guys but never cheated. I eventually came out and we ended our marriage. Hardly a day doesn't go by that I wouldn't give up everything to be with her again. BUT I'M STILL ATTRACTED TO MEN???? I have been contemplating having sex with a women again just to see if I can. I'm in no way trying to hi jack this thread. I just wanted to give some back ground to my reason for wanting to fuck a girl when I'm supposed to be gay??? ](*,)
 
natedogg323 said:
Hey Trish,

Nice thread topic. I've been running this question through my mind for the last few weeks. The only reason why I haven't asked my JUB friends what they think, is due to the insane amount of bi-hatred that seems to run rampant here.

I was married and in a 6 year relationship with a women. I love this women to this day and HATE, absolutely HATE that we're not together anymore. My first noticeable attraction was to a guy. My first sexual experience was with a guy. My fist love, was with my wife. At different times through out our relationship I would fantasize about guys but never cheated. I eventually came out and we ended our marriage. Hardly a day doesn't go by that I wouldn't give up everything to be with her again. BUT I'M STILL ATTRACTED TO MEN???? I have been contemplating having sex with a women again just to see if I can. I'm in no way trying to hi jack this thread. I just wanted to give some back ground to my reason for wanting to fuck a girl when I'm supposed to be gay??? ](*,)
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Sounds like you're bi to me.
 
natedogg323 said:
Hey Trish,

Nice thread topic. I've been running this question through my mind for the last few weeks. The only reason why I haven't asked my JUB friends what they think, is due to the insane amount of bi-hatred that seems to run rampant here.

I was married and in a 6 year relationship with a women. I love this women to this day and HATE, absolutely HATE that we're not together anymore. My first noticeable attraction was to a guy. My first sexual experience was with a guy. My fist love, was with my wife. At different times through out our relationship I would fantasize about guys but never cheated. I eventually came out and we ended our marriage. Hardly a day doesn't go by that I wouldn't give up everything to be with her again. BUT I'M STILL ATTRACTED TO MEN???? I have been contemplating having sex with a women again just to see if I can. I'm in no way trying to hi jack this thread. I just wanted to give some back ground to my reason for wanting to fuck a girl when I'm supposed to be gay??? ](*,)
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Why not try having sex with a woman or your ex wife?
 
The labels are pretty much just political tools.

I know men who mostly everyone would classify as bisexual since they have sex with both men and women but they say that they're gay and it gets confusing.
 
natedogg323 said:
I can't have sex with my ex, her boyfriend probably wouldn't appreciate it too much. I think I'm going to go to a straight club this weekend and pick up some college whore.
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why not date a woman?

if you just want someone to try it out with pick up a woman up but almost ALL of the casual sex I've had with random strangers like hooking up with them hasn't been that good and I could have had better sex alone jacking off and watching a porn.
 
natedogg323 said:
I can't have sex with my ex, her boyfriend probably wouldn't appreciate it too much. I think I'm going to go to a straight club this weekend and pick up some college whore.
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That would be CHEATING....

#-o

You didn't cheat on your wife...but you're willing to cheat on your boyfriend...?
 
TheTrish said:
(!) Where's Chaz??? (!)
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:rotflmao: , Trish, Darlin'!! :luv:

Sorry it took me so long to find this Thread!! :slap:

BeardedWoof said:
I know a few gay men that did have sex with women but this was long before they were out as gay men and they were trying to be heterosexual.
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In my case, that's just about Right! But, I wasn't trying to BE Str8, I was trying to APPEAR Str8!

How can I run this down, fairly quickly? ...

I'm a P.K. (Preacher's Kid), from an entire FAMILY of ministers! My surname is TOO well known in some areas of this country! Being raised under a minor spotlight, there was no telling how fast, and far, "Word" would spread! And I was taught, from a very early age, that "Public Image" was "Job #1"! ](*,)

"Social Animal" was risque, but still an acceptable, if not preferred, "Image"! ..|

My teens, and twenties, happened during the '60's and '70's. The era of "Flower Power", and "Free Love"! :hurray:

I "Knew" I was Gay the very first time I purposefully convinced another boy to get privately naked with me. I think I was, maybe, 6 at the time. Of course, we didn't know what to "Do"! But, I LIKED being "Naughty" with another Guy!! Of course, THAT was Very Forbidden!!! :badgrin:

As a Young Guy, SEX (of ANY kind) was ALWAYS on my mind! And it was EXPECTED that I would be interested in Girls!

So ... YES! ... I've "had" more than my fair share of intimate, extremely personal, experiences with Females! :p I was quite curious, precoscious, and even rather promiscuous! I nearly married 4, or 5, of them! But ... I always KNEW better! I was a Gay Guy "sleeping" with Girls!! :eek: And the "Right Word" did get around!! ..|

But, THAT wasn't the only reason I was "doing" it! I was truly attracted to, and dearly cherished, Females! However, I also always knew I had more fun with Guys! :cool:

It wasn't until my late twenties, early thirties, that I finally "grew a pair", and came Out! Naturally, by then, I was established 500mi. away from "Home"! "My" Kev, and I, have been together since August of 1982! :luv2: And I haven't had sex with a female since!

But, don't get me wrong! I do not regret having lived my life the way I did! And, to this day, I STILL adore, and cherish, my experiences with my Female friends!! All told, I consider myself a Very Lucky Guy!! ..|

And, trust me, there is NOTHING like HOT "Animal" SEX with the right Girl!! (!w!) It's just that I'm wired to prefer SEX with Guys!! (!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz ;)

P.S.
I can totally relate to the song "I Want To F*ck You Like An Animal"! And it doesn't really matter which gender of "Animal" You might be!!
 
Hi, chaz! ;) What I gotta do? (!) You turn me on more very minute! hehe

Hi, b’boy! ;) “Birdcage?” No, what is it about.

Hi, nate! ;) Casual sex is usually not casual, try a prostitute

T
 
Trish, Darlin'!! :kiss: (*8*)

You're makin' me !oops! ! (And that bit of increased blood flow certainly does create a certain touch of "Heat" all on it's own! :badgrin: )

You're absolutely right about casual sex not usually being casual! There is always some type of repurcussion/expectation afterwards, eventhough all parties may swear other intentions before hand.

But, I have found it to be more likely to remain "more" casual with Guys than with Girls. Then again, that could also be a reflection on my own, socially infused, Chauvinistic sense of Responsibility! #-o

Just curious ... and, of course, you don't have to answer ... but, just wondering ... have you ever had sex with a Guy and then simply walked away? :confused:

Personally, I can think of a few instances of my having had sex with Girls, and then they tended to "drift away". Well ... to be honest ... they were more like Running!! :eek: :help: :D

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Hi, Chaz! ;) Do you and Kev need a HOT lil blonde maid??? :sex:

I’ve never slept with a guy without thinking that he’d make a good boyfriend, however I been wrong there! :eek: I have sucked a few cocks and walked away. The attitude I get is the guy thinks I’m then his girlfriend. :rolleyes:
T
 
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