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Curve Dick + Anal sex = No sex

Jo-thin

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Well my problem is my boyfriend doesn't exactly like to receive gifts from me if you know what I mean. #-o Reason why is because my dick is is 7 inches and curves to the left. I'm 5'8 and he's right under my chin, he's well built and I'm thin. So he's short. It sucks because I crave sex with him, gets me hard to even think about it *|* but nothing is happening! I get sexually frustrated not with him but my own sex tool ](*,)! All we do is 69 and rub dicks but I want more to it! The last time we had anal sex was 3 weeks ago and on Valentines day (2 weeks ago) I bought lube so we can have sex make love. He said before he doesn't like the lube much because I get an advantage to go deeper.

There's been times where he seem to enjoy it and sometimes we struggle in position for sex but now a days he's avoiding it until I confronted him about it moments ago, so he doesn't like anal sex from me even though he gets turned on, on a man pounding his back side! Of course this is damaging my self-esteem and makes me hate my own dick even more. Don't get me wrong he's sweet and we cuddle, we're a happy couple but this is a problem in our sex life.

Please help guys
Any advice? :help:
 
I believe if the curve is extreme (i don't know what angles counts as that though) this can be fixed with surgery.

try to penetrate him when he is laying on his side, and you kneel before him so that your curve is rotated by 90° .. most guys find an upwards/downwards cuve easier to handle. also .. do use lube, plenty of it. if he thinks you are going too deep, let him show you how far is okay.
 
yeah thats what we do, on our side then since my dick basically straightens up a bit when inside we do other positions but its hard to! My dick is like a banana -.- I heard that surgery causes erectile dysfunction or can cause it.

Thanks for the advice and info :)
 
The issue is not your dick. The issue is that your boyfriend doesn't like getting fucked. There's a lot of reasons why this could be but ultimately it comes down to he just doesn't want to.

If you got to fuck him twice in the past month, it says that he's making the effort but probably that is going to continue to be less and less frequent as time goes on.

There are plenty of guys who would be happy to have you fuck them and unfortunately you found one that doesn't enjoy anal as much as you do.

You have to decide how important this is to you. There's a lot more to a good relationship than specific sex acts. It's up to you to consider whether the good in this relationship makes it worth not getting inside his ass as often as you like.
 
Have you tried playing with toys, to help your bf to get more accustomed to having a dick inside him, for i agree it is not about your cock. it is the simple fact of him being uncomfortable with taking dick up his ass in general. good luck...
 
Jo-thin said:
yeah thats what we do, on our side then since my dick basically straightens up a bit when inside we do other positions but its hard to! My dick is like a banana -.- I heard that surgery causes erectile dysfunction or can cause it.

Thanks for the advice and info :)
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NO, surgery to repair your curve will not cause erectile dysfunction. If your dick is curved as much as a banana, it is most likely Peyronies Disease. You either have scar tissue (from cracking the Tunica) or a build-up of plaque. Plaque build-up can increase over time, making the curvature more severe.

It could be the curvature of your cock is uncomfortable for him - it may even be painful. Nobody enjoys (well, I guess some folks do;)) painful sex. If he's not enjoying the sex, he's not going to be interested.

If the curve isn't TOO severe, you may not require surgery. I suggest you read yestderday's entry on the blog listed in my sig... It describes Peyronies and what can be done to repair it.
 
Thanks guys for the comments, It sure ,made me feel a lot more better about myself.


KaraBulut said:
The issue is not your dick. The issue is that your boyfriend doesn't like getting fucked. There's a lot of reasons why this could be but ultimately it comes down to he just doesn't want to.
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I can see where this can make sense to him not liking it up the ass. I've been the only person to screw him for the past 2 years and the 1st and only guy that has. So maybe he thinks its the fact that its curvy and thinks that a straight dick will feel better. I don't know how to bring this subject up to make him realize other dicks (straight or not) can hurt too, but the main thing he says about mine is he wishes it was smaller. ](*,) I mean there's been times where my dick would slip right in and he would just tell me to pound harder and harder. Just rarely happens now, but like I said he considers himself as a bottom , :mad: I want to make him feel right if he bottoms.

As for a urologist, I plan on seeing one as soon as I get a job and money to see what can they do for it, I for sure want to get it solved whether I get ass or not.
 
There's no anatomical reason for a curved dick to cause pain or discomfort for a bottom.

Often what happens in these situations is that there's pain (which is not unusual for anal sex) and the memory of that pain causes the person to want to avoid anal sex. You've noted the inconsistency of his behavior but again, it just comes down to someone who just doesn't want to do a particular sex act. It's no different from someone who doesn't want to give head.

You can see a urologist for an evaluation if the curvature bothers you. The degree of curvature and the cause of the curvature are something that a urologist can better evaluate. Curved dicks are quite common and unless it prevents you from having sex, it is generally not considered a problem that requires surgery.
 
My dick sounds EXACTLY the same (even in length). I'm not sure I'd say it curves so much as a banana, but there's a significant curve to the left (I can make it face straight on without any discomfort, so it shouldn't cause any real problems).

In either case, most men have a curve to their penis (predominantly facing up), and curving to the left isn't even that abnormal (for whatever reason, seems more prominent than a curve to the right).

You really need to consider every option before surgery - it doesn't sound like you need it at all.
 
You need to have a serious discussion with your BF to learn the real reason why he doesn't want anal sex. Problems in the bedroom means there are problems in the relationship. Having a curved dick is just an excuse, not a reason to not have anal sex. BTW, my BF has a curved dick; we have great sex together.
 
Mine also curves downward quite a bit like a banana, but i still have anal sex. i have to position myself sometimes to get the right angle, it's quite annoying.
For many people, the curve is not from peyronnies disease, but from congenital curvature, which basically means a natural curve that you are born with.
i also thought of surgery, but i am way too scared to do it.
 
thanks so much guys! I was able to talk to him about it, he said that the size hurts him the most, so I guess the curve thing ian;t much of a problem only thing is gettin into position. I started to notice I was gettin sexually frustrated, when I asked for anal sex and was rejected I would get so pissed -.- but We had sex today and it went very well, took time but was work it!

anyone else have any good advice?
 
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