Cut guys... Use Lube?

[BiQuest]

Hey guys! I was pretty tightly circumsized, but used foreskin restoration methods so it can at least stretch a little. It was very normal, but I wanted a little more skin to play with...lol. I love an uncut cock, but have never been with an uncut guy.

I have only been with one guy, he's cut, but has a lot of loose skin. When he gives me a hand job, he is pretty rough with it, and my cock becomes raw. Yeah, it hurts and it's ugly... It takes a few days to heal, and then it's back to the smooth hard cock I'm proud of.

Is it wrong of me to ask him to use lube, or to take it easy?

I can get off either with or without lube by myself just fine, but is it worth it for me to let him do it?

 

[Brijan]

No shame in asking for some lube, or asking him to do it differently. Doesn't really matter if you are cut or not - do what works!

Please see above.

 

[DeMan06]

No harm at all in asking. I'm cut and have a fair amt of lose skin. I can masturbate with or without lube, but i prefer with. As for my partner, he's uncut but he always uses lube when giving me a hand job because I've told him that a prefer he use lube... simple as that.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

For crying out loud.
Are you serious w/this?
Do you need advice on which pair of socks to put on that day too?

Look, the OP has been with only one dude, so far. He is still going through a learning curve. Something that many of us have done with varying degrees of success. So, he asking for a simple bit of advice. No biggie, right?

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Dude,

Never hesitate to let your partner know, how you precisely feel about what is happening with both of you in any respect. Be it sex, talk, cuddle, food, sports, anything. Be kind and polite but make sure that he knows, how you feel.

And make sure that absolutely respects your wishes, when it comes to your body and your personal well-being.

No need to be shy. He is a dude, too and he'll understand that having a hurt dick is not what the good sex is all about, rite?

SC

 

[BiQuest]

Look, the OP has been with only one dude, so far. He is still going through a learning curve. Something that many of us have done with varying degrees of success. So, he asking for a simple bit of advice. No biggie, right?

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Dude,

Never hesitate to let your partner know, how you precisely feel about what is happening with both of you in any respect. Be it sex, talk, cuddle, food, sports, anything. Be kind and polite but make sure that he knows, how you feel.

And make sure that absolutely respects your wishes, when it comes to your body and your personal well-being.

No need to be shy. He is a dude, too and he'll understand that having a hurt dick is not what the good sex is all about, rite?

SC

Thanks SC, and the other guys... I thought this is what I should, but I'm the easy-going guy who tries to avoid conflict at all costs. I'm getting better at it though. Once again, THANKS!

 

[TygreBryte]

It took me a little while to understand that the level of stimulation that is pleasant for me is actually very different from the level of stimulation that gets other guys off. I have also noticed that some guys do not take the feedback very well! But you owe it to yourself to not have an overly-banged-up banger. Pop the question.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

I'm cut and no I don't use lube. I'll see what happens when I fool around with another guy which is something I haven't done (intimately) yet.

 

[naughtypiscesboi84]

Ouch! Yeah, I'm like your friend there. I'm cut, but when I'm limp enough I can actually roll skin from my shaft over my glans. Sometimes it even stays until I get hard next.

I'd try KY Silk warming lube. It's about $10 bucks at Wal-Mart or Target or someplace like that. It lasts a long time on you skin, and it's perfect for masturbation or hand jobs.