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Hey guys, I'm relatively new here...I do a lot of browsing over on the other forums, and don't really blab that much on here, but felt this was worthy of reaching out to get your opinions.
A couple of months ago, I bumped into this really cute guy with an amazing personality. Despite my best attempts to play along being straight, he picked up that I was gay, and never had any problems about that. In fact, I think since I'm so open about things in my life it helped him be a little more open about things in his, and our friendship has really developed into something more than I ever thought it was going to be. Actually, I think I'm crazy...because I want so much more with him even though that won't happen.
Now here comes the little issue that needs perspective, and I don't know how to explain this, so I hope I'm making sense out there. While he's very open about his looks, and has no qualms about being around others without clothes on, he doesn't think people would view him as attractive. To me it's so just so odd because he has little concern about performing or stripping or anything like that, but doesn't seem to want to because of fear that he'd not be good enough. I told him many times that he had nothing to worry about, because despite the fact that I go for much more muscular types, I find him to rather cute and playable...and to me I figured that's a good sign for other guys and women. I say both sexes because while he's straight, he knows that if he did something like Cam4 he'd be in front of a mostly gay audience, and that doesn't seem to faze him much at all.
So I remembered this site and how every once in awhile I'd come across threads of gay guys looking for thoughts and having a decent, mature conversation among all the wild and sexy fantasies and stories. I told him that either I'm really losing my touch on who's sexy or he's being unreasonable about himself, and that I wanted to talk about it on a "gay forum I frequent". Shockingly enough, he had no problems about that and laughed, and has no problems of me putting up a pic of him that he sent me awhile back on here, too. I made some edits because I guess I'm more concerned about his privacy than he is!
I guess after that rant, I'd like to ask you guys...what should I do about this guy, and should he look into doing things on the side, like Cam4, if he's open about it?
Here's the pic. It's much more, err, detailed...since the pic actually shows everything...but I figured if you fellas thought he was cute enough you'd ask for more...perhaps I'm being a tease in that area.
Also, sorry about the edits...I guess I'm more concerned about his privacy than he is!
A couple of months ago, I bumped into this really cute guy with an amazing personality. Despite my best attempts to play along being straight, he picked up that I was gay, and never had any problems about that. In fact, I think since I'm so open about things in my life it helped him be a little more open about things in his, and our friendship has really developed into something more than I ever thought it was going to be. Actually, I think I'm crazy...because I want so much more with him even though that won't happen.
Now here comes the little issue that needs perspective, and I don't know how to explain this, so I hope I'm making sense out there. While he's very open about his looks, and has no qualms about being around others without clothes on, he doesn't think people would view him as attractive. To me it's so just so odd because he has little concern about performing or stripping or anything like that, but doesn't seem to want to because of fear that he'd not be good enough. I told him many times that he had nothing to worry about, because despite the fact that I go for much more muscular types, I find him to rather cute and playable...and to me I figured that's a good sign for other guys and women. I say both sexes because while he's straight, he knows that if he did something like Cam4 he'd be in front of a mostly gay audience, and that doesn't seem to faze him much at all.
So I remembered this site and how every once in awhile I'd come across threads of gay guys looking for thoughts and having a decent, mature conversation among all the wild and sexy fantasies and stories. I told him that either I'm really losing my touch on who's sexy or he's being unreasonable about himself, and that I wanted to talk about it on a "gay forum I frequent". Shockingly enough, he had no problems about that and laughed, and has no problems of me putting up a pic of him that he sent me awhile back on here, too. I made some edits because I guess I'm more concerned about his privacy than he is!
I guess after that rant, I'd like to ask you guys...what should I do about this guy, and should he look into doing things on the side, like Cam4, if he's open about it?
Here's the pic. It's much more, err, detailed...since the pic actually shows everything...but I figured if you fellas thought he was cute enough you'd ask for more...perhaps I'm being a tease in that area.
Also, sorry about the edits...I guess I'm more concerned about his privacy than he is!
