Daddy Son Fetish Question

[Colby-2023]

I recently met a guy about 14 years older than I am. He really was into the daddy son fetish, which I've never done before in my life. He asked me if I was going to be a submissive son and accept a 10 dollar voucher. I was deeply confused. I never knew that daddy son relationships involved the daddy sending the son money. And they call if spoiling the son. I already told him I wasn't comfortable with that and he continued to ask me if he could send me money. Can someone please explain to me how this works?

 

[LoveMyPeppermill]

Can someone please explain to me how this works?

I'm sure there are guys here who can explain the conventions of that particular scene. But for you, my friend, this works the way you are comfortable with it working or it shouldn't work at all.

If that fetish has any appeal to you, fine: you could explore it when and as you wish. The daddy-son thing doesn't have to include dominance and submission, and one can do dominance and submission without daddy-son games. It's all according to what appeals to you. Don't try any fetish that doesn't appeal to you only because you're afraid the guy suggesting it might be your only option.

And if this guy keeps asking to send you money after you have told him you're uncomfortable with that, that's a big red flag and you should walk away.

 

[Colby-2023]

I'm sure there are guys here who can explain the conventions of that particular scene. But for you, my friend, this works the way you are comfortable with it working or it shouldn't work at all.

If that fetish has any appeal to you, fine: you could explore it when and as you wish. The daddy-son thing doesn't have to include dominance and submission, and one can do dominance and submission without daddy-son games. It's all according to what appeals to you. Don't try any fetish that doesn't appeal to you only because you're afraid the guy suggesting it might be your only option.

And if this guy keeps asking to send you money after you have told him you're uncomfortable with that, that's a big red flag and you should walk away.

Thank you! I already walked away. I just was confused at the whole idea of some stranger sending me money.

 

[TX-Beau]

Be careful with the Dom/Sub thing. Some guys take it way too far.

 

[Colby-2023]

Be careful with the Dom/Sub thing. Some guys take it way too far.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure this guy was going to take it way to far. That's why I got out of there as fast as I could

 

[KaraBulut]

Thank you! I already walked away. I just was confused at the whole idea of some stranger sending me money.

Just to explain...

There are different people who are into the Daddy-Son fantasy for different reasons. One of those reasons is connected to the "I want someone to take care of" fantasy. Connected to that is financial support.. an "allowance" or reward money for being a "good boy".

Bottom line: it sounds like this isn't what you're looking for. You were better off just walking away.

 

[Colby-2023]

Just to explain...

There are different people who are into the Daddy-Son fantasy for different reasons. One of those reasons is connected to the "I want someone to take care of" fantasy. Connected to that is financial support.. an "allowance" or reward money for being a "good boy".

Bottom line: it sounds like this isn't what you're looking for. You were better off just walking away.

I thought a daddy relationship would be cool but after talking to him and him forcing to give me money, I just decided it wasn't for me. Especially if the daddy in the relationship as to send me money to show how much he loves me.

 

[MusicMan321]

Sounds like you made the right decision to walk away if that was me in your situation I wouldn't give anyone money

 

[KaraBulut]

I thought a daddy relationship would be cool but after talking to him and him forcing to give me money, I just decided it wasn't for me. Especially if the daddy in the relationship as to send me money to show how much he loves me.

The important thing is to find what you want. If you are attracted to and interested in older guys, then find that on your own terms, not on anyone else's terms.

Relationships are complicated enough without all this other stuff involving power dynamics and money.

It's also okay to find a plain ol' vanilla ordinary relationship with someone your age who is interested in the same stuff you're interested in. That might be a better place to start?

 

[Colby-2023]

The important thing is to find what you want. If you are attracted to and interested in older guys, then find that on your own terms, not on anyone else's terms.

Relationships are complicated enough without all this other stuff involving power dynamics and money.

It's also okay to find a plain ol' vanilla ordinary relationship with someone your age who is interested in the same stuff you're interested in. That might be a better place to start?

Thanks! Yeah, I think I'm going to try to go with someone my age and if in the future I'd rather do a daddy son relationship I can explore that then

 

[ShadowCat]

Take the money for a bit n run!

 

[doserwis]

I've had a Daddy fetish for so long! I pretty much cum immediately whenever an older, uncut and hairy guy calls me "son" or "pervy son"