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Dad's Pathetic

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So back in July my Jesus Freak Dad found out I wasn't straight and ever since then he's been so fake too me, he will seem nice but It is SOOO fake its ridiculous and its pissing me off, also whenever he looks at me his eyes just fill up with tears and its pissing me off to fucking hell!!!
He just cant get himself to accept the fact that people are born Gay and lesbian and I think im forcing him to question his faith but its so annoying, its been 4 months now and he still can't accept the fact Im on the verge of losing my mind its pissing me off soo much.

what would you guys do in this situation????????
 
Have you made an effort to educate him? Maybe if you got him some of that PFLAG material or that documentary 'for the bible tells me so' ?
 
The only person you have control over is yourself.

Does he like to read? There are several books about how the passages of the Bible are incorrectly interpreted.

It takes some parents a couple years to come to grips with the situation. My parents never understood it, but came to accept it.
 
ya just pisses me off, its like they only feel bad for themselves it seems rather then putting themselves in my shoes, but hopefully time will make things better.
 
As a gay person and as a dad I see the situation as one that is more complicated than you see it.

First there is you and what you have been through in your own coming out process. That is huge and an issue I wish more people were willing to address. Every gay person has to figure out that they are gay by themselves, over time, and within a family and peer group structure.

Secondly, there are the issues of your parents. How old are they? How old are you? Do you have siblings? What were their views on homosexuality before they found out? How did they find out? Why is your dad tearing up? Is it the homosexuality, or is it fear of HIV?

I know it sucks, but you are in the position to educate them. From the little that you write, I'd say you have sensitive parents, which is a good thing. Start the dialog and put that anger to use elsewhere. Help your parents and in turn they'll be there to support you.

It's a process. Be patient.
 
Ya my parents are real sensitive alcoholics, like they have nothing better to do then just sit at home at night and worry about everything else but themselves. My mom called me a faggot sumbliminally to my face also which kind of hurt me too. =\ However its such a touchy subject to talk to them about my dad says all the time "ITS AN ABOMINATION !!" just in general so it scares me to the poiint id rather die then bring it up unfortunately.
 
I would move out, i know hes ur dad and he will always love u even if he is faking it, he really does luv u deep down.
 
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