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Dad's Reaction Of You Being Gay!?!

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HotRiot

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when i told my dad i was bi he was really calm about it!

He asked me did i have sex! the answer obviously YES!

He asked me did i used a condom

YES!


and that was all, in the next morning i found a location were gay bars in clubs were...


so im guessing it didnt faze him of having a gay son!!! (!) YEAH


But all stories are not the same! (not even close)





so what was your dad or moms reaction of you coming out the closet!

oh! and by the way i was 18 how old were you!



>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>THANK YOU<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
 
I was 16, My dad was completely cool about it he even said "Theres a lot of things i dont understand and i cant judge them, and im not you so i dont know how you feel etc etc" hes still cool with it to this day, its my mom that isnt totally accepting, she didnt have a bad reaction but she gets irritant when the subject comes up.
 
My bio. dad died when I was 11... looking back on how he acted when my sister dressed me up and did stuff like that, I doubt that he would've taken it lightly. I highly doubt it.

My step dad has a gay brother so he didn't care.

And the only thing my mom said was "Okay, guess I don't have to worry about you knocking up any girls then."

Yep.
 
We never talked about it, but he knows. I wanted to tell my oldest, coolest sister, but it wasn't meant to be. We lost her when I was a teen.
 
I was very lucky with my parents. My dad was career military, but never judged me. I have a lot of relatives who are gay and out and my parents had gay friends when I was growing up. They knew I was gay before I did, just waited for me to tell them. I wish lots of kids had it as easy as I did, have heard lots of horrible stories from people and friends of mine.
 
I told my mom first and I knew she'd tell my dad so I didn't really tell him anything just confirmed it.

he asked me whether I also like girls and said "I used to but not anymore" then he kinda wanted to know what role i was having in men2men business, he didn't know how to formulate his question though so i had to explain that I'm a top.

He was sort of relieved LOL. I remember him being mostly silent during the conversation, I was the one talking... he was in the most part just listening. I explained that it's not his or my mom's fault and that since I was a kid i knew that I was a bit different. Also told him that my homosexuality is not likely to go away so they should not keep any hopes up. Told them that i can leave home if that's what they would prefer, he said that won't be necessary. I was 19 then and just starting a relationship. It took them 1 year to finally agree to meet my boyfriend. it was an awkward situation but at least they realized the man i was seeing is not some sort of an alien or monster LOL.

Nowadays my mom would spill something like "and I'm not becoming a grandma am I?" and I'd say, of course you are... my brother is perfectly straight, I'm sure you will have grandchildren someday.
 
I was never in the closet or anything like that tho I lost my parents when I was 4. But the place where I grow up gave us sex education from the age of 9 to 15 every six month and comments were made that I would be doing it wrong if I did it with a guy!! :lol:

My first Boyfriend/Husband we were together for 26 years had problems with his Father the Butch Policeman who couldn't/wouldn't accept him or our relationship and kicked him out of the house after pulling an unload gun and putting it to his head then pulling the trigger.

He never spoken to his parents again even tho they rang a few time a year.
I did the wise thing a kept right out of it all. My second Boyfriend/Husband Mother (Married 9 times) was very anti-me because I stole the son.
 
My dad didnt really care. he was very easygoin about it. of course i have a weird feeling my dads Bi O.o
 
My father died before I told him. Honestly, I never planned on ever telling him. We didn't have a strained relationship or anything, we were just never particularly close. I'm not sure how he would have taken it. I don't think he would have been surprised. My mother certainly wasn't.
 
my dad took it better than my mom did.

all he said was that he didn't care what the church said, he believes that we're born this way and the he loved me regardless because i was still his number 1 son.
 
My sister offered to tell him, and I was a coward and told her to go ahead. He had to sort of adjust to it for a couple days, but then he met my boyfriend, and they hit it off famously.

Lex
 
Not very hard since I have two gay dads.

Neither of them were shocked because shortly before in Hawaii I left my laptop on and had some daddy porn on it >___>"

I think they would have known before then but I suppose not.

I asked alot of questions though and I told them I wasn't a virgin and a 49 year old took my virginity and I like older guys. They were kinda shocked at me liking older guys and don't exactly approve or disprove of it.

But they were supportive and my dad told me about youth pride and I checked that out. As well as other gay social groups. And I've been to midtown several times.

Although I wonder how they will take my current situation. If they ever find out.

They still think that younger and older relationships aren't right though cause society says this and that. They are fucking 15 years apart though :rolleyes:
 
My auld dear was alright. My dad told me I needed psychiatric help. Was great fun.
 
you know everyone knew but no one talked about it........i hate that.

so i became the son they never thought they would never have a gay punk rocker. a freak if you will.

but in the end i was the son who was my parents caregivers when they were dying. was i looking for acceptance or redemption. who will ever know.
 
I only told my Mum. I told her when I was 14 and she took it well I guess. She asked me if I was sure then told me that she thought it was best that I "didn't go out and act on it" or tell everyone. I did anyway. We haven't talked about it since but I wish we could.

I was never close to my Dad so I never told him, he cared more about my cousins than me but I'm ok with that. He was never a good father and we have never had a meaningful conversation so I suppose it doesn't matter.

:(
 
Coming out later in life has been a little strange. My sibblings all know but I have not told my parents. I lost my Dad last October and i just didn't feel the need to tell him before he went. I think he would have been shocked but he would have taken it well.
 
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