Date rape?

[HollisterDude08]

So I hung out with this guy i've talked to for a while now tonight. I went to his apartment... we drank a little whatever. I drank one beer and started feeling REALLY weird. Like... really fucked up and I had just almost finished the FIRST beer. So I quit drinking it because the first thing that came to mind is he put something in it. I waited for a while... and when he went to the bathroom I poured it down the sink and got another one. So whatever... I drank like 2 more and we ended up messing around. I am REALLY scared he put something in my beer... but the thing is he gave it to me unopened... so I had to open it and he wouldn't have had the chance to put anything in it because it was sitting infront of me the whole time I would have had to saw him. Like... I just got home and I still feel fucked up? I'm really not sure what to do...

 

[Corny]

it's hard to close a beer bottle again .. you would notice it when he opens it in front of you.
did you eat before the date? beer on an empty stomach, especially in connections with total nervousness can have weird effects

 

[3nipples]

I should think you would have noticed if the bottle had been previously opened and closed again since you say that you were the one who opened it.

Did you have anything to drink together before you went to his apartment?

Can you be more precise about how you were "feeling weird"?

Do you think that if you hadn't felt "weird" that you wouldn't have done any messing around with him?

 

[HollisterDude08]

It wasn't just a weird feeling... it was like a weird FUCKED up feeling. Like I did some sorty of drug. I was really dizzy and I felt like I smoked or something... i don't know it's really weird.

 

[sb]

Date rape is when you are forced to have sex with someone you know. Its not something you say happened because you messed around with someone and felt fucked after having a drink.

If you think the drink you've been given has been spiked you shouldn't follow it up with an extra two beers. I am in agreement with the other posters who think the fucked feeling was probably just nervousness mixed with alcohol.

 

[Diodorus]

Assuming it wasn't David Copperfield or someone of that ilk it could have been a bad beer from the manufacturer I suppose.

 

[HollisterDude08]

So, let me get this straight-

You think he put something in your drink, presumably to be able to sexually assault you, and your solution to this was to drink more and then have sex with him?

Methinks the problem lie not in the bottle...

LOL. it's not the fact we had sex. I voluntarily had sex with him... I was still in the right state of mind because i noticed something weird and got a different beer... but the fact is I am concerned he did try put something in my beer to make me so out of it he could take advantage of me. If he did in fact put something in my drink... I don't ever want to talk to him again. See what I'm saying?

 

[looseliam]

I have had that feeling before.

I thought someone spiked my beer.

As it turned out, there was something in that particular beer to which I was mildly allergic. If I was tired, or sick, or weakened, and I drank that beer, I felt like I was drugged.

 

[3nipples]

LOL. it's not the fact we had sex. I voluntarily had sex with him... I was still in the right state of mind because i noticed something weird and got a different beer... but the fact is I am concerned he did try put something in my beer to make me so out of it he could take advantage of me. If he did in fact put something in my drink... I don't ever want to talk to him again. See what I'm saying?

Why didn't you say that at the beginning ?

I think looseliam may be on to something with his idea about the allergy. I have a reaction to something they put into wine and before I figured out it was an allergic reaction, I always thought it was the alcohol that was making me feel that way.

 

[subobj]

So you had the weird reaction after you started drinking the first beer. How long?

It generally takes about half an hour or more before anything digested REALLY hits.

If you started feeling this way within 10-15 minutes of drinking the beer, then keep in mind that anxiety/nerves can make one feel seriously dissociated, weird, etc.

 

[AdmiraalW238]

... but the thing is he gave it to me unopened... so I had to open it...

It is highly unlikely that he would have been able to reseal the bottle and give it to you unopened for YOU to open...

If you watched him open the beer and hand it to you, it's unlikely he put anything in it. It sounds more like a case of nerves to me. But, the bottom line is, if you feel bad or are having physical symptoms, go to the hospital immediately. They can run tests and make sure.

It certainly sounds like nerves to me...it could also have depended on if you had eaten anything prior...but I really do think that it was nerves.

And yes, if you are concerned in the slightest there are tests that can be run that can determine if you have consumed any substance...so that is always an option.