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Dating a total top...

He's probably been so objectified because of his big dick (hint, hint) that he's psychologically detached himself from it and doesn't feel much of anything 'down there'.

See if he initiates a move towards sexual interaction next time. If he does that may be an indication that he got something out of it and you might have a sexual future together. If his attitide towards sex is 'take it or leave it' and your's is 'gotta have it' then you have a fundamental incompatability.
 
Actually, from HIS point of view, he has no idea I'm feeling any of this. He thoroughly enjoyed everything.

We weren't going to fuck anyway. He's very old fashioned and mostly a good boy.

And, again, he's showing A LOT of interest. He calls me every day, several times a day. If the sexual aspect were there, I'd say he were practically perfect.

Cant u work on it? I mean use a Dildo to loosen it up and then maybe u can take him and he might get more into the sex? Try that. He probably would appreciate all you trying that for his cock.
 
Nope...any guys who say they are 150% top have other issues.

My advice? Still the same. Until he demonstrates that sex is about mutual pleasure, he should just fuck his hand, or a cantaloupe. It will be all the same for him I fear.

Don't waste your time; find a lover who is more your taste.
 
>>>Actually, from HIS point of view, he has no idea I'm feeling any of this. He thoroughly enjoyed everything.

No clue? You never once said, "Dude, what about me?"

Lex
 
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