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Sooooooo I've been talking with this guy on facebook and we've been kinda flirting back and forth but I was wondering how to take it to the next level?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
A guy that you've meet? Or friends of friends?

Ask him if he'd be up for Coffee? Hike? Kayaking? Rock Climbing? Concert? Beach?
 
Take a risk and ask him to do something that would be of interest to him. Do some planning and look for upcoming events. In these situations it is best to "feel the fear and do it anyway."
 
To let someone know you is scary. I do hope you find the courage as that is the only road to a meaningful relationship.

I agree with all the above - find something of shared interest and do it together. Movie, show, lecture, hike, football game, whatever - it will not be a date, it will be a shared experience with someone you like and who likes you.

Celebrate your life and those you care about.

Rand
 
Dating is scary - no doubt there.
Opening up to a new person, all the concerns, the preparations, the restrictions etc. It can be a headache, I sure know.

With that said, you should definitely just jump into it. Dating is a bit like gambling but instead of chips the stakes is your heart - much higher value. But if you never gamble, you never win either. So, try and get past your shyness and just ask him to do something casually. You don't have to label it as a date - in fact, not doing so will probably take the pressure off.
Get to know each other and find out if you hit it off :-)

Happy dating!
 
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