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Dating and Attraction

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I kinda feel that if there's attraction, physical attraction doesn't even matter. I've found myself attracted to some "not so attractive people" and it's always about the person he is.
 
Who knows?

Have sex a few times.

Sometimes guys we least think about in a sexual way, they're the guys that do it for us.
 
It's like saying "I've never had a favourite colour but I've always wanted one. Should I settle for maroon even though I don't feel it is really all that special?"

No, it doesn't matter that you don't have a favourite colour until you see the one colour you truly love. Same thing with love. You can't shove somebody into the mould of your true love. If you have a true connection with someone, great. If not, better to enjoy being honestly single than stuck with someone pretending to care about each other, pretending to be attracted to each other....
 
Tough call, it's brains vs dick.

If you like the guy and enjoy his company then give it a shot.

This appears to be a big problem with us gays, is we are too quick to think with our dicks. A relationship doesn't always start with an erection.
 
interactpres said:
would you date a guy you weren't really physically attracted to?
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It depends on what you're looking for in "dating".

If you like this guy, he's a good guy and you enjoy his company, then what do you have to lose by dating him?
 
There is attraction, and then there is lust. Don't cheat yourself by getting these confused. Just because you immediately don't want to jump his bones does not necessarily mean you are not physically attracted to him. If everyone wanted to hold out for only the people they lust for, the world would be full of lonely people.
 
Qixote said:
There is attraction, and then there is lust. Don't cheat yourself by getting these confused. Just because you immediately don't want to jump his bones does not necessarily mean you are not physically attracted to him. If everyone wanted to hold out for only the people they lust for, the world would be full of lonely people.
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I can add to this that often the ones we lust after can be very disappointing, once we get them...
 
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