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douseiai

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ok the guy that i may start dating is in fact bi... and i do not hold anything against him its just well... i am pretty damn gay and i was just wondering... anyone have any suggestions on anything would be awesome... i have never dated a bi guy before (just cause one never seemed interested) i know its odd but if theres any recomendations i know i know its a stupid question but if you have any if i could get some that would be awesome :) (*8*)
 
be careful... a lot of bi guys freak out if they get too close to a guy and think they might spend the rest of their lives with a guy and will run to the nearest girl who will fuck him
 
vermilion said:
Why do people think they have such a good idea of what goes on in other people's heads?:rolleyes:

And uh, as for suggestions, huh? It's not like you're dating a different species O.o
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juat cus its happened to me.. and he hurt me so bad that i came close to suicide


but i'm not saying he will do it.. just that he could do it... especially since every bi guy i know is confused about what he wants
 
As a Bi Guy, I feel comfortable saying we are just like everybody else. Different individuals have different tastes, internal rules of the road, etc. The obvious difference between Gays and Bis seems, in my experience, is that Gays react with a YUCK response to sex with females, where Bis are at least intrigued if not moved to take action on an opportunity with a Female. Beyond that Bis respond and react to what feels good, first psychologically, then physically.

Satisfying relationships that are rewarding are no different for Bis than Gays. Bis that have a mature sense of self can be equally happy in a Gay relationship as with a heterosexual one. The fantasy and titillation factor may have a continuing broader spectrum for the Bi in a Gay relationship just as it might in a heterosexual one. However, the decision to act on the effect of the opposite sex is not any different than deciding to act on a Gay attraction, or not act.

In my humble opinion, if the relationship is whole and rewarding a Bi guy is just as likely to abide by the agreed constraints of a relationship as he would being a member of Gay couple or a conventional Hetro couple, curiosities and temptations being what they may be.
 
I second what COACHMN said. I respect whatever relationship I'm in regardless of the other person's gender. I'm just like any other guy (well, in a lot of ways). Treat it like any other relationship.

And congrats on the boy.:kiss:
 
puka-pride said:
be careful... a lot of bi guys freak out if they get too close to a guy and think they might spend the rest of their lives with a guy and will run to the nearest girl who will fuck him
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Next time please say some instead of a lot

I understand that man hurt you, and you naturally want to tell others to be careful so they won't be hurt as you were. But please be accurate.
 
My advice as a bi guy, douseiai is to be honest and upfront with him, and expect the same. Additionally be careful. I would give this advice to anyone though, not just because you are dating a bi guy.

Oh one more thing have LOTS of fun ..|
 
well, you know my advice is going to be something along the lines of "RUN".

But after that I'm going to say that at this point.. just enjoy the ride and don't think too far ahead.

There will be plenty of men in your life.. don't pick out the china pattern just yet.
 
thanks for the ideas guys :) i am not gonna run but i am totally not paving the yellow brick road to our relationship... i haven't really asked him out truely yet... i'm gonna hang out with him a bit and see where it goes... we went to a concert the other week (the semidate i posted on the out thread) and i like put my arm around him and rubbed his back a bit (kinda odd affection i show to about anyone that doesn't oppose to it) nothing overly sexual and all stuff that I am used to and he showed no oversion to it so *shrug* I am gonna be patient just wanted some suggestions... i totally thank mr sock for his comment... i do not believe in changing others really so i am not gonna force him to be gay (in fact if he remains as seemingly manly as he is i may let him stay the same :P ) anyways thanks again any further comments are of course welcome :kiss: thanks
 
I think I could be bi too so I'm not sure if my opinion would count. But I would think that a bi guy could be just as committed as a gay guy in a relationship. Keep the channels of communication open wide and I think gay or bi, the relationship will go a long way! :)
 
I think ultimately, it depends on the bi guy. If he is secure in his sexuality and cool with dating a guy, I think it could work fine. If he's not secure with it and hasn't come to terms with it, it's not going to work. Hate to be so blunt, but just the way I see it.
 
jockboy01 said:
I think ultimately, it depends on the bi guy. If he is secure in his sexuality and cool with dating a guy, I think it could work fine. If he's not secure with it and hasn't come to terms with it, it's not going to work. Hate to be so blunt, but just the way I see it.
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What did you say here that you have to appologize for, this is a good time to be blunt, for you nailed it ..|
 
Like several other guys here, I'm bi. I have been in a healthy happy relationship since 1999. It has survived lots of stuff, lots of jobs, and now we are stuck living in seperate cities because he can't take adavantage of unemplyment laws that would allow him to quit his job and follow me. I have wanted sex with women frequently in those 7 years, but I understand what commitment means and I can play by the rules of the relationship
 
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