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dating in 2021....

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"My name is Jordin, and I suck at 2021 dating." (joke, referencing AA openings lol)

But really, I do. 2021 dating, and the todays 'norm' is so odd and foreign to me. I find that most guys, are dating around with more than one guy- and since I am the minority which doesn't really like doing that, I tried it. it was helacious- hard to keep up with more than one man at a time, and I felt.... bad? I'm like any other guy, I love having sex, I love porn, I love jacking off, I just find that I would rather do it with 1 dude, than 2-xx other - unless its with the guy I'm with, and we decide a threesome or whatever is okay and fun to do.

I'm 36 years old, and I can't navigate today's dating world to save my butt!

*exhales* Hi everyone!
 
Welcome to JUB. Congrats on your first post.

For every guy that is "dating" multiple people, there's another guy sitting at home wondering why he can't find a guy who wants to settle down.

And that's the real problem: the most visible people in the community are the ones who typically get around the most. It takes some searching to find the other guys- the ones who aren't out at the bars or hanging out on the social apps or going everything possible to attract attention to themselves.

You didn't really ask for advice but one suggestion: focus on finding gay friends and expanding your social circle. When you find those guys who are out there who are stable and have good jobs and are focused upon friendships, you'll also find the group of guys who are more like what you're seeking.
 
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