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Dating is weird even for old guys

  • Thread starter Thread starter SantaCBear
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Enough ???

It aint like I'm looking for a 'lover' - But I understand what you mean.
 
As long as you don't mind being the "snuck around on" guy next time, go for it. ..| :)

Lex
 
I'd ask him what the situation was, if he is interested and has any degree of maturity he'll be honest and open. Its not inconceivable that they were in the process of breaking up or were even on a break at the time then reconciled and that was the change of heart you saw. Once he tells you its up to you to decide if he seems trustworthy and if ur likely to get the same treatment down the line.

There are legitimate and illegitimate explanations for his behavior and asking him is the only way to be sure.
 
If you end up seeing this guy again, try to keep your expectations down a bit lower this time. Honestly, you can't expect a whole lot from somebody you meet in bar. These things can range from ran out of your apartment while you slept to partnered 50 years later.

Just enjoy the time you spend with this guy and see what happens. If you won't get some enjoyment out of the dating process or the just screwing around process, I wouldn't bother following up with him again.
 
btw-- we have talked on the phone twice since last post. Maybe lunch next week...
 
btw-- we have talked on the phone twice since last post. Maybe lunch next week...
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He has given no explanation for his rude and odd behavior?
 
^^ He was in the middle of a break-up and was going out behind his BF's back while his BF was out of town the weekend we met.

Doesnt make it right/wrong but that was his answer.
 
that was his answer - ok - your attitude seems good on that - you got so much in this but not anything of expense other than he owes you a dinner... given all and what he says is plausible, even though he handled it poorly he wouldn't be the first guy to do that - you know the cautions so if you want to go for it, do it - good luck and keep us posted - this could be the start of something good or he is rebounding or something else who knows but we only know by living so go for it my friend!
 
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