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Dating with HPV

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Long story short, got warts and had them treated a few weeks ago. Now they seem to have disappeared. I know I'm still contagious so I don't want to meet new people and pass it on. This leads me to my question, If I meet the guy who I got them from would the warts come back? He's such a nice, cool guy and I'd hate to lose contact with him because of this. He wasn't even showing signs of warts, but I know that the virus can lay dormant. I just don't know what to do, abstain from sex/dating or meet the guy I used to see since he most likely has it also...
 
Seriously, don't stress too much about it. 99.9% of sexually active adults (gay & straight) have HPV. Many, or even most don't even know it. Same with herpes... Believe it or not, it's seriously become part of the human physical makeup.

Unless you're having a flare up, just go on with your life...
 
Thanks for the input. I guess the hardest part is telling your potential sex partner and they have the whole "omg STD" reaction. I mean, I did the same thing when I found out and I'd hate to pass that feeling to someone else.
 
This might be a stupid question, but I had warts on my hands when I was younger... they got frozen off and never came back but does this technically mean that I could transmit the virus sexually? I always wrap up anyway but I'm curious
 
HPVs a virus and can go away spontaneously. just because you were told you have HPV doesn't mean you will have it forever. as long as your warts are destroyed you should be golden
 
It just seems strange that people are discussing "passing on" HPV or not dating because they have ben diagnosed with HPV when at least 75% of people are already infected.

Everyone here (unless they are a virgin and even then possibly) is likely to be infected with the strain of HPV that can cause genital warts. 90% of people infected don't know they are and have no symptoms.
 
It just seems strange that people are discussing "passing on" HPV or not dating because they have ben diagnosed with HPV when at least 75% of people are already infected.

Everyone here (unless they are a virgin and even then possibly) is likely to be infected with the strain of HPV that can cause genital warts. 90% of people infected don't know they are and have no symptoms.

One reason that I don't cite percentages on HPV is that we've discovered that HPV is so common that past studies of HPV may have been contaminated either by the technicians processing the specimens or by HeLa remnants on lab equipment. A lot of what we thought we knew may not be valid and we're having to go back and do new studies.

What we do know is that- like herpes viruses, influenza and rhinovirus- HPV is so common in human society that most of us have been exposed to it. These HPV exposures are primarily on our hands and feet and were largely asymptomatic, although a percentage do result in common warts. Most people seem to be infected, remain contagious for a period of time and then recover, although they can be reinfected by the same strain at a future date.

The strains that affect the genitals and the anus, like herpes simplex, seem to carry a stigma- maybe unfairly. We don't know exactly how many strains of HPV affect the anus and genitals- primarily because there's not a cheap affordable test but also because there's so many different strains. Already over 100 different strains of HPV that have been identified and we think about 1/3 of those strains can infect the genitals. There are probably many more strains that exist but haven't been identified.

There are some recent HPV studies that are pretty alarming. There are several studies that show that almost every female in the US of college age who is sexually active will be exposed to genital HSV. There has also been a couple of scary studies about increases in oral cancers in which most of these cancers are showing positive for HPV. What we believe is that we're seeing the tip of the iceberg. The problem is that we're also surrounded by icebergs to the point that we aren't exactly sure what to study and what conclusions to draw.

Also what we do know is that there are some strains of HPV that are associated with cancers- particularly strains 16 and 18. There are a couple of immunizations on the market (e.g. Gardasil) that provide some immunity to these strains. And the recommendations have been changed recently to recommend immunization for both men and women- preferably before they become sexually active.

Beyond that, we're still trying to understand HPV, how common it and what HPV infection means in the long term.


Bi for Older said:
...this leads me to my question, If I meet the guy who I got them from would the warts come back? He's such a nice, cool guy and I'd hate to lose contact with him because of this. He wasn't even showing signs of warts, but I know that the virus can lay dormant. I just don't know what to do, abstain from sex/dating or meet the guy I used to see since he most likely has it also...

All a long post to answer your question with "We don't know".

We do know that you can be reinfected with the same strain- infection doesn't seem to prompt enough of an immune response to confer permanent immunity.

But with what we know of HPV, it is so common that anyone you have sex with- male or female- has probably been exposed to anogenital HPV if they have had any sexual conduct. So, the knowledge that this one guy has HPV is dubious information. The chances are that a majority of your sexual partners have been exposed to HPV- it just so happens that this partner had a strain that caused warts and he seems to have been shedding virus when you slept him. But unless he was your only sexual partner, there's not any way to know if he was even the source of the infection.

If you want to have sex with him again, don't base that decision upon the knowledge that he may have HPV.
 
I think you should just see him. Just use condoms for everything if it worries you that much.
 
Long story short, got warts and had them treated a few weeks ago. Now they seem to have disappeared. I know I'm still contagious so I don't want to meet new people and pass it on. This leads me to my question, If I meet the guy who I got them from would the warts come back? He's such a nice, cool guy and I'd hate to lose contact with him because of this. He wasn't even showing signs of warts, but I know that the virus can lay dormant. I just don't know what to do, abstain from sex/dating or meet the guy I used to see since he most likely has it also...

Got a question about this man.. I don't really know what you mean by warts.. I know people get them from time to time, usually on a foot, but is it an STD?
I mean are warts transmitted sexually? and where do they appear on the body if they are transmitted sexually?
Never have heard of such a thing..
 
Got a question about this man.. I don't really know what you mean by warts.. I know people get them from time to time, usually on a foot, but is it an STD?
I mean are warts transmitted sexually? and where do they appear on the body if they are transmitted sexually?
Never have heard of such a thing..

All HPV is spread by contact between an infected person and a non-infected person- usually direct skin-to-skin contact.

The different strains of HPV have adapted over time to where they have a preference for different parts of the body. Over 10% of the strains that we know about can infect the penis, the cervix and the anus. There's also a few strains that can infect the mouth.

Some of these strains cause warts and other cause cancer. In some people, the warts are not visible to the naked eye but are still contagious.

The virus in these strains passes from penis to anus/cervis then from anus/cervix to penis and the cycle starts over again. It can also be spread from penis to penis by direct contact (like docking) or anus to anus through sharing of sex toys.
 
We do know that you can be reinfected with the same strain- infection doesn't seem to prompt enough of an immune response to confer permanent immunity.

This was my main concern. After 3 treatments with my dermatologist, my warts seemed to have disappeared. If it is possible for me to get reinfected, then I don't really want to risk the warts showing up again. It just makes me feel terrible and drops my self esteem.

Also, how accurate is this statement: "In 90% of cases, the body’s immune system clears HPV naturally within two years." It's taken from the CDC website. And when they say 'clears' from the body, does that mean asymptomatic (but still contagious) or completely gone (not contagious)?

Thanks for the input.
 
Also, how accurate is this statement: "In 90% of cases, the body’s immune system clears HPV naturally within two years." It's taken from the CDC website. And when they say 'clears' from the body, does that mean asymptomatic (but still contagious) or completely gone (not contagious)?

We don't know.

There are some viruses like the herpes viruses that can remain dormant in nerve ganglia for decades.

HPV is not well-adapted. Various strains limited to certain types of cells. The problem is that there are different responses to the virus in different people. Some people get warts that go away on their own- the infection is limited to the superficial layers of the skin. In others, the warts persist until they are removed with laser, cryosurgery or treated with imiquimod. In others, the virus triggers abnormal precancerous growth. In some people, the virus can be chronic- they show no signs of infection but continue to shed virus for some time.

Because there are so many variations, there's not a yes/no answer to your question.
 
Okay, a few questions..

We don't know.

There are some viruses like the herpes viruses that can remain dormant in nerve ganglia for decades.

Does this mean that the virus (depending on the strain) invades the CNS or PNS?

HPV is not well-adapted. Various strains limited to certain types of cells.
When you say 'not well-adapted' what exactly do you mean? Like skin cells? stratified squamous or whatever they may be in the genital/anal area? If so, why don't they die after new new skin cells are made? If they don't die after new skin is made, does this mean that that particular strain actually invaded the nerve ganglia (CNS/PNS)??

The problem is that there are different responses to the virus in different people. Some people get warts that go away on their own- the infection is limited to the superficial layers of the skin.

again, stratifies squamous or whatever the genital/anal area is? (sorry, I'm not very knowledgeable in this area, or any area for that matter)

In others, the warts persist until they are removed with laser, cryosurgery or treated with imiquimod.

okay, so I had cryosurgery, and they have seemed to gone away. Is there any way I could know for sure if the cryo did the job and removed the virus or do I have to play the waiting game and just see if they come back?

In others, the virus triggers abnormal precancerous growth.

Is there any way I could talk to my doctor and take a test to see if I have the precancerous type? According to my derm, there are no tests for HPV for males....

In some people, the virus can be chronic- they show no signs of infection but continue to shed virus for some time.

This one confuses me. How can you not show sings of infection and shed the virus? do you mean not show signs but still be contagious?

Because there are so many variations, there's not a yes/no answer to your question.

I guess there is no way of knowing exactly what strain I have because there are so many different types. I'm sorry for bomb-barding you with questions but I'm just very curious and you seem to know much about this topic. As a biochemistry major, I'm eager to know more about this, surprisingly, unpopular virus that no one seems to talk about.

Thanks again..
 
Does this mean that the virus (depending on the strain) invades the CNS or PNS?

Herpes, yes. HPV, no.

Chickenpox is a herpes virus. The virus hangs out dormant in the nervous system and sometimes comes back later as shingles.

Cold sores are a herpes virus as is genital herpes. Both come and go often because the virus remains alive but suppressed/dormant in the nerve endings. When you're under stress- running a fever, having a bad cold, stressed out because of school, etc the virus is reactivated and causes another round of sores.

With the exception of the few strains that cause cancer, most HPV infections seem to be self-limiting. HPV is taking over your cells to make more copies of the virus. Once it accomplishes that, it seems to go away in a lot of people. When it doesn't, it is frozen or burned off and that seems to remove the cells that were infected.


When you say 'not well-adapted' what exactly do you mean? Like skin cells? stratified squamous or whatever they may be in the genital/anal area?

Let's contrast this with another virus like influenza. Influenza is highly adapted. It can infect pigs, birds, primates, humans- a lot of different species. It mutates frequently so humans can't get lifetime immunity- you can get the flu several times a year if you're exposed to different strains. Influenza can remain infectious outside the human body and it spreads by casual contact and if there's influenza virus on a surface like pen or a desk, you can get the flu by just coming in contact with it. And influenza doesn't kill the person it infects- it's just looking to use your body to make more virus so that you can infect someone else and start the cycle all over again.

So, we we talk about HPV being "adapted", we're looking at how it is transmitted, how long it can stay infectious, whether it triggers the immune system, whether it stays active in the body for a long time, whether it can stay alive outside the body, etc.

HPV seems to just want to use your skin cells to make copies of itself. It doesn't really want to hang around for years. It doesn't want to get further inside your body and infect other parts of your body- it wants to stay in the skin and hide from your immune system. It can stay alive outside the body for some time. And it very rarely ever kills the infected person like HIV or influenza or measles.

Bi for Older said:
If so, why don't they die after new new skin cells are made? If they don't die after new skin is made, does this mean that that particular strain actually invaded the nerve ganglia (CNS/PNS)??

Well, because new skin isn't made. Your skin cells are constantly dividing which doubles the number of skin cells but every cell is just a copy of the cell that divided. When one of the cells is infected with HPV, the virus turns that cell into a factory for making HPV. The reason that you get a wart is that the infected cells are abnormal and start to reproduce rapidly- making a big lump of abnormal cells that makes up the wart.

Going back to the earlier discussion about different strains and how different people respond differently to HPV... Almost everyone gets a wart on their hands or feet at some time in their life. The wart is there for a few weeks and usually seems to go away on its own after a while. What we think is happening is that the way that the virus takes over the cell also shortens its life or distorts it in a way that it eventually can't reproduce itself anymore. Or it may be that your immune system begins to win the battle and kills off the infected skin cells. So, in time the wart cells fall off and the wart goes away.

In some people though, the cells don't die off on their own and they have a chronic infection where the wart has to be removed- by scraping, freezing or burning.




again, stratifies squamous or whatever the genital/anal area is? (sorry, I'm not very knowledgeable in this area, or any area for that matter)

Skin is made up of very similar structures but the cells in different areas have adapted to be different. The skin on your face is different from the skin on your hands/feet which is different from the skin on your dick which is different from the skin on your butthole.

Different HPV strains seem to have adapted to like a particular type of skin. So, the HPV strains that cause warts on the soles of the feet (plantar warts) seem to like that type of skin cell. The strains that infect the soles of the feet don't infect the penis. On the other hand, the strains that like the skin cells on the penis also seem to like the cells that are nearby on the anus.

This makes sense when you keep in mind that these viruses are being spread by skin-to-skin contact. So, HPV on the hands is more likely to be spread by holding hands or shaking hands. HPV on the genitals is more likely to be spread when a penis goes into a vagina or an anus or when it rubs up against another penis.



okay, so I had cryosurgery, and they have seemed to gone away. Is there any way I could know for sure if the cryo did the job and removed the virus or do I have to play the waiting game and just see if they come back?
Is there any way I could talk to my doctor and take a test to see if I have the precancerous type? According to my derm, there are no tests for HPV for males....

Actually, your doctor is not completely correct. There are tests for HPV and for determining which strain of the virus has infected the patient.

They are DNA tests and they're expensive though.

If you were to have a colonoscopy and the doctor found abnormal looking cells on your anus, he'd scrape them and send them to a lab. This is actually a Pap smear- the same test used to diagnose cervical cancer in women. If the cells on the Pap smear look abnormal on a microscope, they would be sent to another lab for DNA testing to determine which strain was causing the problem.

In the case of your genital warts, they've been burned off which kills the infected cells on the surface of your skin. This should be the end of it. However, if you later have abnormal cells develop at the site where you had the warts, a Pap Smear would be done and the testing to determine what strain it is would be done.

That doesn't happen very often though. The strains that cause warts aren't the same strains that cause cancer. Usually warts go away or are removed and that's the end of it.




This one confuses me. How can you not show sings of infection and shed the virus? do you mean not show signs but still be contagious?

Not all strains of HPV cause warts. The strains that cause cancer often don't cause warts- so there's no visible signs that the person has HPV. Under a microscope, you might see abnormal looking cells but most of us aren't taking a microscope to our partner's penises (although we wish we could sometimes!).


I guess there is no way of knowing exactly what strain I have because there are so many different types. I'm sorry for bomb-barding you with questions but I'm just very curious and you seem to know much about this topic. As a biochemistry major, I'm eager to know more about this, surprisingly, unpopular virus that no one seems to talk about.

Well, here's a few links explaining the testing process if you're interested.
http://labtestsonline.org/understanding/analytes/hpv/tab/test
http://health.usnews.com/health-new...ew-hpv-test-to-detect-cervical-cancer-strains
http://www.rense.com/general75/100.htm
https://www.inspire.com/groups/national-cervical-cancer-coalition/discussion/hpv-strain-test/
 
Thanks KaraBulut for the information and Bi for Older for asking good questions.
 
I'm just trying to understand and maybe spread awareness of this STD. Had I know more about it before I was sexually active I could have taken the vaccine and possibly saved myself lots of unnecessary trouble... I have one more question (lol sorry). Can I still get the vaccine to protect myself from the other strains (cancerous) even though I already have/had warts? I know it doesn't get rid of the warts but can it still work against the other strains?

Thank you for all the information KaraBulut, I really appreciate it.
 
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