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Dealing with crushes

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I have real problems with guys I have crushes with. I've had a crush on a guy for 2 yrs now, and I still can't stop thinking about him. Every day actually. I've tried everything but nothing helps me keep my mind off him.

And now, I have a 2nd crush which I really don't want, it's causing me more stress. Especially how I keep thinking of the other guy. It's very frustrating and pathetic, how can I get over this? :(
 
It would help knowing if you're in the closet or not. Closeted and guys with social anxiety, I believe, are more prone to debilitating crushes. The fact you want to make changes is very positive. Whether you're out or not therapy may be an answer. Exercise, meditation and/or yoga might also be beneficial as it may be a substitute endorphin generator. Take care of yourself as best you can and post often and pm anyone with whom you're comfortable.
 
I've had a crush on a guy for about 3 years now. on and off i keep telling him that i am into him and he does like guys....it's complicated.

Crushes, i don't think are pathetic, we just can't help them. Actually, the only crushes i think are pathetic are internet crushes. Do they know how you feel? Are these guys you know in real life?
 
Thanks guys, for awhile now I've been out to everyone and I've talked to my crushes (lack of anyway) :P My newest crush is a guy I see throughout the week, but the other I haven't seen for a few months.
 
You haven't mentioned actual sex, only attrections. I tnink you need to move on to an actual relationship, and the crushes will disappear.
 
facetoface said:
neither of them are interested in you?
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One is straight that I know of, (highly doubt he's gay) But no, interest from them isn't the problem. I know I'm not gonna get in a relationship with these guys, but still, the crush is crushing me so to speak.
 
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