Dealing with Haters

[MoufOfKhaos]

I don't have time to notice people that notice things about me enough to be envious of what little life I live to the point that it effects them negatively, and the reverse is even truer than the former example.

Being happy for having haters is so 2003. Noting that you have them is so 1999.

 

[Corny]

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

they is produce by male cultures ins a neva endin
buckets a turd

ans help keep lot useless jobs goins

it call progress is thinks

haaaaaaa

 

[refujiunderground]

honestly, haters is an overused and overrated word. not everybody that doesn't like you or approve of what you do is a hater. maybe they just don't like you, maybe you're actually a dickhead that rubs people the wrong way and only you don't realize that yet. a lot of people with ego issues actually think they have a bunch of people hating on them. i feel that a lot of people in our generation are arrogant and have that big of an ego where they can't even humble themselves for a minute. they think that every single time someone isn't smiling at them, isn't telling them how nice they look, aren't kissing their ass and acting like they're the shit is a hater. you see them on facebook, myspace, twitter with their mouth puckered up talking about "you want to be me", "all you haters can kiss my ass" and etc. i laugh at them because they're basically unknown. the question becomes who exactly is hating on them? one person doesn't qualify as a bunch of haters. you're giving that person too much credit. i think the irony of that whole mentality is that when that same person dislikes something or somebody, they don't see that as hating. they see it as expressing their opinion. it's really people holding double standards for themselves. the only time i see someone who you would consider to be a hater being a problem is if they go out their way to make your life miserable such as bullied kids and etc. now those kids can say they have haters. i wouldn't perceive a bully that actually smacks you around or someone that says nasty things about you to your face, makes fun of you and etc as being a hater more so than someone that just gives you a nasty look and keeps their thoughts and opinions to themselves.

but on that matter, i'm a guy which people call a hater because i tend to not like a lot of popular things people like. that's just me. i geniunely are not into those things or such and such music artists because i think they suck. i'm not hating on you if i don't like your shit. yeah, i do get jealous and envious of other people from time to time but guess what, i don't let that turn into hate. i pretty much give myself the pep talk where i have to tell myself stop it and snap out of that mindstate. it's the same thing i apply when i get sad or stressed to the point where i start having suicidal thoughts or mad to the point where i feel like whooping somebody's ass. i take the higher road. i certainly don't go out my way to make somebody's life a living hell. that's not my style at all. on the internet, it's a different story. i'll say whatever about whoever and keep it moving after that. in real life, i'll just keep my opinion and my views about someone to myself unless so and so is being too much of a dick where they have to be confronted.

as for people that don't like me or whatever. it's all good. i don't care as long as you don't go out your way to make my life miserable and shit. funny thing is there have been a good number of people that have done exactly that where they have tried to make my life miserable you know as in talking shit to my face or being straight up dickheaded towards me and honestly, i'm surprised that i didn't fuck them up because i had every right to knock their ass out, throw some scolding hot water in their face and etc. i pretty much took the higher road with them even though i probably should have stoop to their level and brought their own shit back at them to shut them up. shit, if they hate me, i hate them too. all i know is that i never ever want to deal with their asses again and if they ever step out of bounce, i'm fucking them up.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

 

[refujiunderground]

I'm not talking about subtle nuances of passive aggression or lack of whatever amount of admiration one feels they deserve. I am talking about a direct and unwarranted dislike of an individual because of perceived superiority, stature, or significance without there being a verifiable cause.

If you actively dislike someone for subjective reasons that are not a result of the person doing anything to you then you are a hater.

my question is how do you know someone doesn't like you to such extent for blank reason? sometimes, it's just you. 9 times out of 10, when someone calls so and so a hater, they're overexaggerating that person's feelings. if so and so isn't even going out their way to make your life miserable or could be a possible threat to you, why should you give a fuck? let em live. they're not hurting you. that's why i don't understand with all these people crying about haters when none of these haters are going out their way to get them. apparently, they don't think you're that important to begin with.

hate is a strong word too, you know.

 

[refujiunderground]

People who don't like you either ignore the shit out of you to make you feel less important or make it a point to let you know they don't like you by their actions. You will know someone is hating on you when you hear through the grapevine that they are talking shit about you behind your back, or they are putting effort into being a cunt to you even though you don't deserve it.

Someone could really be ignorant and merits dislike but it does show the character of an individual that preoccupies himself more with his dislike of others rather than his likes.

One needs not focus on their enemies, but, it does a world of advantage to be aware of them.

well, i never understood why people get upset @ people talking shit behind their back. i mean, i expect everybody from my family to my homies to do that shit. that's just how people are.

now as for the first part, someone ignoring you isn't an issue. someone who basically goes out their way to make your life hell is another issue. i would be more concerned about people that were willing to go out their way to show how much they don't like me more so than someone who talks shit behind my back.

 

[Beachguyj]

Do you mean in person or online.

Online I can just ignore them, and if they throw a jab at me and I'm in the mood I will respond.

In person I don't deal with them. When I was in highschool in our circle there was a girl that didn't like me. I guess she didn't appreciate my sense of humor, her younger sister on the other hand would laugh if I said "boo". She was just very rude, insecure and condescending. It's best to just ignore people like that who want you to walk on eggshells around them.

 

[pat grimshaw]

I think I have one or two haters here. ..

they're just jealous of you

 

[kevbo]

I let haters deal with his or herself.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

I let haters deal with his or herself.

da planet no can wait dat long

so folks gonna giv UN bit a balls

help up on ladda of life

thankyou

 

[Mr-Brooding]

In high school I truly had people who didn't like me because I did well in art. I was the youngest person in the class, but the teacher would always use my art as examples of how to do things and she'd call me out for understanding the principles of design better than the seniors. It was a dark time for me because it was literally the whole class who made fun of me, attacked my clothes, and everything else I did because of their envy (except for two other people).

I used to ignore it or get emotional, but now I have developed a very condescending smile, almost as if I have an inside joke going on in my head about whoever is hating on me. People hate when you seem unaffected by attempts to bring you down.

 

[diamondstar]

A Hater Hates What It Cannot Be

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Kat Williams says it so eloquently.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Du83OGIIyUQ

yeaaaaaaa

 

[Saybrooke]

I deal with haters by keepin up my swag