Dear Tops and Bottoms, can you guys help us out ?

[rekohererro]

Me and my boyfriend have been in a loving relationship for the past 3 years. We adore each other. We really do. But our sex life have been pretty mediocre lately. Do you guys have any advice on how to spice things up in the bedroom ?

Yours truly,
The Willing Bottom

 

[Seasoned]

Start with The Joy Of Gay Sex.

 

[rekohererro]

Thank you

Is that suppose to be a link ?

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Yep I found it http://www.harpercollins.com/9780060012748/the-joy-of-gay-sex

 

[Seasoned]

No, sorry I should have been more specific, it's a book.

 

[DarkHelios]

Go for a week without either of you having an orgasm (assuming this isn't already happening).

 

[KaraBulut]

Me and my boyfriend have been in a loving relationship for the past 3 years. We adore each other. We really do. But our sex life have been pretty mediocre lately. Do you guys have any advice on how to spice things up in the bedroom ?

Yours truly,
The Willing Bottom

Thank you
Yep I found it http://www.harpercollins.com/9780060012748/the-joy-of-gay-sex

The Joy of Gay Sex has two functions- it's an instructional book with different positions and ideas for having sex. But there's also other sections about intimacy, communication and connecting with your partner. In these days when everyone is overwhelmed with information and everyone seems more interested in their phone than other people, it's important to ask yourself whether the "spice" that your relationship needs is a question of imagination or whether it's a matter of committing some time and actually paying attention to each other.

 

[bamabottom4u]

Communication is the best place to start. Describe your fantasies and then do them if you both are willing. I am a bottom, and just do NSA hook ups for now. I hear it all the time, that their ex or current lover doesn't make them feel like I do...of course they don't mention their relationship till after sex Lol. I always ask them if they ask their mate to try how they like it...9 times out of 10, they never even discuss it.

Open up and talk...could change everything for you.