TickTockMan
"Repent, Harlequin!"
Completely agree.
I should add that some people leapfrog over the paying back debt part and just forget about the debt. I've lost thousands to such attitude. This is why I will only lend money to family nowadays. Unlike western culture, our family connections are rock solid. I know the American saying that never get into business with or lend money to family. For us, family members are the only ones we will get into business with and lend money to.
When I had money I would only lend money to people I cared about enough I didn't care if they paid me back. I only lost money to one person, but he was the one that meant the most to me. I know he was never in the position to pay me back though so I don't mind, much.


