Deep In Denial

[Butter My Biscuits]

This is my first time writing on of these rants so here goes.

So today, around an hour ago me and my friend were texting and just
random shit talking each other since that's all we have to do. After an hour
of this the subject came up of who had the bigger dick. I told him we can go
meet up somewhere and we can see since he didn't want to come to my
house I went and picked him up and we went to the local community college and
parked at the very back in a wooded area that was empty.

We started making fun of eachother again and talked for a while and finally
got down to comparing. ((Apparently when you comparing sizes width beats length
so for the sake of ending the conversation his was bigger.)). So the next thing
I knew we were staring at each other alone in the woods (you know where I'm
going.)) and so then after cracking a few jokes he grabs my head not once but
twice and forced my head down on his dick. After I came up he said I "knew you
were gay". I looked at him with a expression and I was like, you basically
just forced your dick down my throat and I'm the gay one.

And after I proven him wrong he went in denial......are you serious....what just
happened not 30 minutes ago has left your memory? After we both agreed it
never happened, I took him home we both waved goodbye but deep down I
wanted to shoot him for messing with me. I don't get it, how can some people
be so nice but then turn around to be assholes. I told him I am a proud bisexual
18 year old MAN. I never deny anything....but I don't know I swore I wouldn't
let it bother me but it's the fact that I call him a friend and he basically just called
me a gay whore to my face really bothered me....the fact that he is in denial
about the whole thing really pisses me off.....what do you suggest I do to get over
this betrayal.

 

[hackingnomberr]

Make him accept that it happened?

I wouldn't consider it much of a betrayal, he's probably pretty scared.~

 

[Seasoned]

The notion that the sucker or the fuckee is the bigger queer is plain bullshit. And since when does width trump length when dick measuring? It sounds like you have the longer dick and he has the fatter one.

Sexual rudeness can be a turn on, but that doesn't sound like it's something you're into. The next time he wants to play make him do something first, like kiss your dick or lick your balls.

 

[Dodger712]

What do I suggest you do? Write this asshole closet case off and not speak to him for a while (or forever). If he wants to announce that you sucked his dick then tell everyone that he grabbed you by the back of the head and forced you down. It was not voluntary. Probably he was testing the waters because he has something going on in HIS head that he is trying to work out. And I'd advise you don't get involved in his trying to work it out. This is the same type of guy that has A beer, claims he is drunk, has the fuck of a LIFETIME with you then claims that he doesn't recall a thing the next day. AND the guilt they feel turns to anger and resentment towards the person they "played" with and it can get VERY ugly. Like "gay bashing" ugly. They tend to want to destroy the person who reminds them of what they can't face and what they did (and enjoyed!) so, I'd advise to stay away. Better safe than sorry.

 

[Croynan]

drop all contact with this person.- no going backwards. he has just told you all you need to know about him

eM./

 

[HorndogPaul]

I echo this comment:

I wouldn't consider it much of a betrayal, he's probably pretty scared.~

He may just be freaked out. Maybe he is curious wether he is gay or not and denial is just easier for him to handle at this point.

 

[KaraBulut]

It's pretty clear that you both wanted to see each other's dicks. Whether he is gay or straight doesn't matter- he was looking for a blowjob and- like a lot of guys- doesn't consider it gay as long as he's one getting sucked off.

With that said, if this guy is looking for someone's mouth to use, you're better off not wasting more time with him. Unless of course, you want to play into his "gay whore" fantasy.

 

[SteveyBoyLA]

What do I suggest you do? Write this asshole closet case off and not speak to him for a while (or forever). If he wants to announce that you sucked his dick then tell everyone that he grabbed you by the back of the head and forced you down. It was not voluntary. Probably he was testing the waters because he has something going on in HIS head that he is trying to work out. And I'd advise you don't get involved in his trying to work it out. This is the same type of guy that has A beer, claims he is drunk, has the fuck of a LIFETIME with you then claims that he doesn't recall a thing the next day. AND the guilt they feel turns to anger and resentment towards the person they "played" with and it can get VERY ugly. Like "gay bashing" ugly. They tend to want to destroy the person who reminds them of what they can't face and what they did (and enjoyed!) so, I'd advise to stay away. Better safe than sorry.

^^^ This. He sounds like nothing but trouble. Forget him, and move on. I don't see any outcome that will be in the slightest way satisfying to you to overcome his betrayal, but I see a whole bunch of downsides as Dodger712 sited above.

 

[bhandsome]

What do I suggest you do? Write this asshole closet case off and not speak to him for a while (or forever). If he wants to announce that you sucked his dick then tell everyone that he grabbed you by the back of the head and forced you down. It was not voluntary. Probably he was testing the waters because he has something going on in HIS head that he is trying to work out. And I'd advise you don't get involved in his trying to work it out. This is the same type of guy that has A beer, claims he is drunk, has the fuck of a LIFETIME with you then claims that he doesn't recall a thing the next day. AND the guilt they feel turns to anger and resentment towards the person they "played" with and it can get VERY ugly. Like "gay bashing" ugly. They tend to want to destroy the person who reminds them of what they can't face and what they did (and enjoyed!) so, I'd advise to stay away. Better safe than sorry.

I agree. Honestly, if you guys went to a wooded-quiet area to compare dick sizes, then he is gay or atleast bi. He motioned for you to suck his dick so that makes him sexually attracted towards guys. He probably is trying to figure out his sexuality.

I would not bring it up unless he brings it up.

 

[justaguy]

You mention yourself that he's in denial. This being the case, then his actions seem consistent with this denial. It doesn't necessarily mean he's betraying you on purpose. He may be confused about his feelings and trying his best to get them out of his mind by putting it all back on you. By the way, I'm presuming he had an erection during this encounter. That's normally a pretty good indicator of his sexual feelings.

 

[TNniceguy]

I don't know how long you have known this guy or the situation leading up to your post. However, I really get a feeling of a potentially dangerous situation. Here is why: he didn't want to go to your house, the situation took place in an isolated back wooded area and it isn't uncommon for someone in denial to be an aggressor. Please don't think I am trying to judge either of you but I think I would distance myself from him and let the issue cool off. If you've known this guy for a LONG time, text him your feelings and see what he says. You don't deserve to be treated that way and you have to put your health and safety as YOUR number one priority.

 

[billybob109]

This story im so confused why would he do that if he did not want a blowjob and did you actually give him a blowjob? And what straight guy would meet his friend in a car in the woods to compare dicks he is obviously in denial! Too bad he cant cope with it maybe you could of had something.