Define Age

[Zuirech]

Define Age.

OK, my birth certificate tells me I'm 46. But I don't feel that. When my dad was 46, he was 46 and old. But am I kidding myself?

Hair: Grey hair; OK, I call it platinum blond. I see these guys with their Grecian 2000 / LOreal tints. It looks shit. You know that it's a dye job. Why bother?
Face: Remarkably intact. I use lots of product - but I think it's genetic too.
Body: Intact: Not an ounce of fat. Amazing as I've never done any exercise.
Cock: Well, I have to comment as this is a gay site. Amazingly, my erections are so fucking strong and hard - just like when I was 19.
Cum: OK, here's a big difference. There is nowhere near as much as there was in the old days. This is a huge disappointment. I can't hit my face any more.
Ass: Still beautiful. Sometimes, I need to use PrepH.

What am I trying to say?

You young, beautiful guys who come on this site will one day be old. If you are lucky. You don't believe it. But you will. One day, your youth and beauty will have gone. Then what?

Emptiness.

 

[Andreus]

if you are defining worth, specifically yours, with the categories of Hair, Face, Body, Cock, Cumm and Ass ?

how do i say this....

if that is what you think all young gay men only think about, then you are not only mistaken about my future emptiness but also your current lack of it.

stereotyping young gay men like this and then objectifying them is why young men are leery of older gay men.

you need look no further than that.

dont take the time to rate your physical atributes and then imply that you are above people who are body beautifull concsious.

 

[gmoney]

if you are defining worth, specifically yours, with the categories of Hair, Face, Body, Cock, Cumm and Ass ?

how do i say this....

if that is what you think all young gay men only think about, then you are not only mistaken about my future emptiness but also your current lack of it.

stereotyping young gay men like this and then objectifying them is why young men are leery of older gay men.

you need look no further than that.

dont take the time to rate your physical atributes and then imply that you are above people who are body beautifull concsious.

Well said, Dreu!

I'm 44 years old. There are plenty of things that have changed since I was 18,19,or21. I have friends that are 19 and I have friends that are 60.

Do I feel younger than my dad did at this age? I have no idea. Yes, growing up, I thought he was "old", but then that's the perception we all have in our youth!

There's a saying: "The older you get, the dumber you feel". I thought when I was 21 I knew everything. I know better, now.

If holding on to physical appearences as long as you can, means staying young, then I fail miserably. Am I happy with my appearence? Yes! I mean I wished I was better looking at 18, so that hasn't changed, but I accept my appearence more today than ever.

I also don't think all 20 somethings feel 40 somethings are ready for the rocking chair either. If you spend your day wondering what the younger generation thinks of you, then you yourself have the empty life!

 

[gsdx]

I'm only 54. I'm always being asked for my 'Senior Card'.

Some of us ain't so lucky.

 

[Andreus]

i have always thought kyanimal is one of the sexiest guys at jub

he's a sexy man and he has one of the kindest hearts

he is a sweet fun man with a nice body who happens to be 56

it aint about age

 

[gsdx]

i have always thought kyanimal is one of the sexiest guys at jub

he's a sexy man and he has one of the kindest hearts

I must agree. Always the gentleman, our Chaz.

 

[MRMATTX2]

I'm 42. Once in a while I get told I look younger, which is nice for the ego, I suppose. I'm much less "age-conscious" than I was 10 years ago. I've been lucky to never have a weight problem, as I've always been thin. Over the last few years a few gray hairs have appeared in my facial hair - I gasped at first, but, what's the big deal? Sexually, for the most part I get just as hard as I did 20 years ago....and, under the right stimuli, can shoot a hearty load. My Dad only lived to be 53, hopefully I make it considerably longer.

So, to me, age is really just a number. You are as young (or old) as you feel.

 

[Riverrick]

I'm 50 and I'm more concerned about feeling healthy - you know, energetic, limber joints, etc. Sure, I fret some about my appearance but I think that is more due to being single. Fortunately working out keeps me feeling and looking good so far.

This last BDay was really hard for me. Time just seems like its moving so fast. I never feel ready for the next "number" that I am. But I do accept it and move on.

Best not to get too caught up in one's AGE.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I have done everything in the book to age gracefully.

I have also lived by the slogan that 'we should add more life to our years rather than more years to our life'.

I am happy with the results. I still get to pick and choose the hot dudes around.

My med check-ups turn in very good results. A friend, who is somewhat of a local celebrity among the MDs here always asks, 'how do you do this?' I have promised to share my secret with him for a small downpayment. All the JUBBers get the advice for free: I have lots of sex. Safe and all. But I am going strong, where it matters.

I have always worked very hard. And I have clocked more hours than I care to admit. But I was never bored. And I never feared the loss of job or the loss of income.

I have never tried to look younger. Weawed in hair, Grecian Formula and the rest simply cry out 'This dude is old. He is trying to look younger!' An absolute 'NO DO'.

I have never had a problem with a younger dude, who is not into guys, who can easily be in his father's age. So, if he says: Nope; I am cool with it. I beg neither for sex nor for friendship.

Since, we really have no choice over ageing, we only can do 'all we can' to age gracefully. I have been doing my best for a few years now.

SC

 

[teh_nathan]

It's really not about age - or it shouldn't be. I hate age discrimination. I have friends online as young as 13 and as old as 40's.

 

[Xavier_Holland]

Ok I look at alot of older guys. And I don't see the age thing being really all that big until 60. However, alot of guys my age that are young and sexy and we've got the firm cute smooth butt and the sexy body. Our eyelids are still pink, and our butt is super white from our undies, and our abs are firm and lickably smooth.

But here's the difference between a young guy and an old guy.

I take care of my body and won't have regrets when I lose all my hair or I'm darker and rough. Because it's called being a man. And I know it's going to happen. And when it does I won't look back and ask where my boyish figure went. I've always been a big boy with big muscles and a soft and sweet heart.
The only thing that'll change when I'm older is my physical features. The soft and sweet heart will still be there.

So where's the loveable guys I look up to? Hopefully, not bitching about my pink and tight butt right?

 

[Riverrick]

I am WAY past my best before expiry date. I am, indeed, THE (pronounced "thee") paragon of The Gay Troll...

...except for the "chases-after-the-twinks-scaring-and-grossing-them-out" part.

Well, there're losers in the gay community too ya know. You saw the pics. I'm proof. Some of you even survived.

You ALWAYS say this stuff. But you're only 50 years old and not bad looking!

What is up with this?

 

[dpnice]

As The Pianist said there are loosers in the gay world. Age, unattractive bodies and limp cocks do colour your outlook on the world and the hopes of any relationships.

How ever hard you try to counteract his statements with your kind comments he will always know his own reality, as many of us older guys do.

But aging is not about hiding in a corner feeling bitter and forgotten. It is about acceptance and ensuring that all the pleasures of life don't pass you by.

So sex no longer is an integral part of my life there are many other pleasures to replace it. It is a fact of life that one must live with but, if you know you can't have the moon why spend your life bemoaning the fact, just aim a little closer to home.

The statement that I am happy being old, knowing and doing things I couldn't when I was younger has always seemed a little hypocritical to me. I for one would appreciate being young again but as that is a dream I make sure that what I have is the best that I can achieve. In my simple manner I ensure that I enjoy my life and that is all that matters.

 

[Riverrick]

"Up with this" = My Truth, my Reality, and my How It Is.

Please refer to my sig line.

Sorry. I didn't mean to offend you.

To me, you look like so many other gay guys I know, both in and out of relationships. And I guess it strikes close to home since I am the same age as you.

But I can understand how 18 years would lead you to this conclusion. In fact, I'm sure its logical. I hope, though, that chance will take its turn in your life. And in mine.

 

[dcmorgan]

I'm casually seeing someone that's 47. I'd say, yes, he does look his age, but I don't see that as a bad thing. Rather on the contrary, he has a face full of character, he looks like he's led an interesting life and I'm very attracted to his lines. His eyes are the most gorgeous, youthful and full of life I've ever seen - and he's probably in better physical shape than I am.

I've always gone for men older than me for a variety of reasons, but it's just always felt right. Besides, I'm more attracted to personality traits than physical traits. I never wanted anyone perfect looking, but once you're attracted to someone's personality, they become physically attractive to you too. At least to me.

I'd say age is more about how you feel than how you look.

 

[ahotjock71]

Beauty and youth fade.

Heart and personality are forever.

 

[dcmorgan]

Beauty and youth fade.

Heart and personality are forever.

Amen.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

 

[Andreus]

Age is the number of years you have managed to keep from being killed or killing yourself.

Anything else is imputed.

lol

agreed

and I am fond of saying that when I grow older i have every intention of being a dirty old man

I think it will be kind of fun really