Demeaning, dirty talk

[bulge]

In a sexual situation, saying anything dirty/demeaning is hot in my book, but once the session has ended, I think respectful chat should resume.

Of course. Some sessions can be quite demeaning and dirty, but after the session respect is a must. I sometimes have the impression guys after a demeaning session tend to be more lovely, that there is kind of a better understanding. Afterwards guys can be quite lovely.

 

[durtyboi]

i hate it when lads refer to my arsehole as my cunt or pussy. its my arsehole (asshole to those across the pond from me), i'm a boi who likes to have it filled with cock, i'm not a girl.

 

[BearGrey]

Oh man, I love nasty talk, but most guys can't pull it off, especially in the movies. Jeff Stryker was one of the better ones.

 

[Cubanboi]

To me its not sex if there's no dirty talk. Its like whats the point???
I've seen WAY too many 'silent films' where the neither top nor the bottom says Anything during sex. Its terrible. If its quiet I wonder if its even enjoyable.


I'm practically sure to cum hard if the top is very aggressive, dominant and a little nasty and/or the bottom is verbal and tells the top exactly how good it feels to be taken over.

 

[gabriel1]

i hate it when lads refer to my arsehole as my cunt or pussy. its my arsehole (asshole to those across the pond from me), i'm a boi who likes to have it filled with cock, i'm not a girl.

whats even worse is when it's called "boypussy"

 

[slnattak]

I don't mind boypussy or man cunt. I mean I would hate to have to leave one box just to be put in another one. I hated sports and acting macho/hunting but I never got the whole drama/catty scene either.

Just think it's reverse discrimination. You are still kinda hating yourselves. You are saying that you can't have a pussy or a cunt just because you're a man. Pussies and cunts aren't made just for women. Because it's vulgar slang either way. What you don't have, is a technical vagina. That's it. Even straight guys have man pussies, they are usually just too up their own ass for people to find it. =)

 

[bulge]

I don't mind boypussy or man cunt. I mean I would hate to have to leave one box just to be put in another one. I hated sports and acting macho/hunting but I never got the whole drama/catty scene either.

Just think it's reverse discrimination. You are still kinda hating yourselves. You are saying that you can't have a pussy or a cunt just because you're a man. Pussies and cunts aren't made just for women. Because it's vulgar slang either way. What you don't have, is a technical vagina. That's it. Even straight guys have man pussies, they are usually just too up their own ass for people to find it. =)

I couldn't agree more. Thinking pussies and cunts are made just and only for women, is castrating men. Most of the societal macho thinking and rules a man has to abide with "to be a man", is downright castration of men. A real man is a man who refuses all castration and all the be-a-man rules castration. "Macho's" who indulge in those rules are no real men. Real men do not indulge by stupid be-a-man rules.

There cann't be any objection against using "his pussy" or "his cunt" for a str8 guy's junk either in the narrow sense (arsehole) or broad sense (arsehole, buttocks and cock and balls), as str8 guys use themselves "pussy" and "cunt" in extreme demeaning ways. Besides, when a gay guy uses it for a str8 guy's junk, it is usually rather laudatory as a gay man will usually only use it for an attractive str8 guy. I have even heard some gay men say "he is a cunt" or "he is a pussy" for attractive str8 guys.

In the societal context we live in it is much more objectionable to use it for gay men except between gay men in sex scenes. It can be quite hot to challenge a guy that way in order to see whether he is a be-a-man rules follower and to check him out that way. It works everywhere. All men around the world have been duly formatted to respond to it like real Pavlov-dogs.

 

[dlkereluk]

Do you find demeaning, dirty talk - stuff like slut, fag, pussyboi - during sex or when just watching porn arousing or a turn-off?

Completely turns me on!

 

[bulge]

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=239915

 

[torontoguy22]

Such a turn-on! I'm not sure why, maybe it's the submissive part of me. Just as long as it doesn't sound silly or forced, it's HOT HOT HOT.

 

[nip/tug]

my ex used to say to me things like "u like that u little faggot" while fucking me or while i sucked his cock, totally got me hot!!! know idea why! ...im getting hard just thinking about it... he talked alot of "daddy" stuff too. yum! But he would also say things like boy cunt or pussy or any hybrid/combonation of the 2, absolutly cannot stand that. then one time he said "yeah, you want my special prize" while sucking his dick, i stoped immeditly and said "you got to be kidding" he started laughing, admiting to the how stupid it sounded and we still joke about that one... its all in good fun

 

[cum001]

Its weird, I think the shyer you are in "real life" the hotter dirty talk is. I know for me (a pretty shy guy), its one thing to type nasty things when im having online messaging fun, but when i go on my mic and actually say it out loud...its way more intense. If I find a good dom type, it amazes me the things I will say in the heat of the moment...and I always cum crazy hard.

 

[wastingmymind]

They never do enough of it. One pet peeve I have with demeaning talk is whenever I hear the word "boy." It's as if they would like me better if I was 17 years old.

 

[HornyHenry]

"Suck it you cunt-mouth!", "Bend-over asshole." "Bend-over & spread 'em!.", "On your knees cocksucker.", "Kiss my ass you ass-wipe"(for rimming), and the legendary "Fuck you!" are all good.

 

[sinmaker87]

ME ME ME!! I love dirty talk and being insulted like that. So hot.. but it has to be by the right guy.

 

[cocksucker4use]

Yessir! The more degrading, humiliating and abusive the verbiage, the more turned on and uninhibited this fourlegged lowlife worthless cuntwhore is for you.....Sir!

 

[UncutBrit]

It's not for everyone sure but I love a guy to be verbal. 'Give me your cunt, boy,' said my top last night as he gave me a powerful fuck.

 

[cocksucker4use]

It's not for everyone sure but I love a guy to be verbal. 'Give me your cunt, boy,' said my top last night as he gave me a powerful fuck.

I think the deal with hot talk is that guys are audio as well visual. aural and oral?
The lack of words at all can be hot, too....just having a dude come in and feed and or mount me without any verbal communication and then taking off is hot. The verbal heightens the experience and gets us cranked to a higher level and enhances the sex alot. A guy doesn't have to be a rockstar at it, and sometimes if ya try too hard it gets lost, as well. A hella hot straight guy I service just tells me how much he's enjoying my mouth on him and usually calls me his cocksuckin bitch just once he's about to blow.....it's hot.

 

[bulge]

I think the deal with hot talk is that guys are audio as well visual. aural and oral?
The lack of words at all can be hot, too....just having a dude come in and feed and or mount me without any verbal communication and then taking off is hot. The verbal heightens the experience and gets us cranked to a higher level and enhances the sex alot. A guy doesn't have to be a rockstar at it, and sometimes if ya try too hard it gets lost, as well. A hella hot straight guy I service just tells me how much he's enjoying my mouth on him and usually calls me his cocksuckin bitch just once he's about to blow.....it's hot.

I couldn't agree more. No talk at all or dirty talk requires nothing special. Any body can do it. Never try to reach a particular level when you dirty talk. Every body can talk dirty when getting frustrated. So, why wouldn't you be able to talk dirty for amusement? Simply don't force things. Simply talk. Very easy.