Well yah. Hence the reason socialism is a disasterous failure. One financial liability is removed from the individual, the individual no longer gives a fuck. Why work when my bills already get paid, why take care of anything when the gov't pays to fix it.
Real question here Kuli is just how much pot does one have to smoke to still buy into socialist ideals? What is in some people's water? Is it a genetic flaw? A chemical in the brand of baby powder used on their butts? Please explain if you can...
The deal is that while some socialism may be a good thing, many people conclude that it's the way to handle everything.
Take the matter of having electrical lines running clear out into the remotest rural areas: that got accomplished by socialism. Consider the interstates that bind the U.S. together: those got built because of military socialism (you can still find and talk to people who remember and will tell you that it was the Interstate
Defense Highway System). Fire departments are a manifestation of socialism -- heck, if you want to get picky, so are police departments.
Have you written to protest the existence of National Parks and national forests? What about public water supplies? or public sewers? What about public schools? All of those are, at least arguably, socialist.
Granted, some ought not be in government hands; for instance, water supplies, or even schools. Even sewage could be handled privately, for that matter, and so could highways. But the public has rightly concluded that there are just some things that won't get done, or not done well at all, and that that lack will harm others, unless we do them together. Thus taxes fund city streets -- even for Friedman it was a stretch to scheme out a way for those to be done privately!
The trouble arises when the system becomes anti-choice, and requires things like being connected to the public sewer system, if there are other ways to do it (here, it would be simple enough to have a tank that would be pumped out and hauled to the plant where manure from livestock ends up generating electricity and turned into fertilizer; human excrement is sterilized by that process just as well as anything else). We toss around the term "anti-choice", not realizing how ridiculous it is to use that for one very narrow part of life, when in reality both major parties are anti-choice on such an array of things that to list them all would be a major labor -- "DOMA" was anti-choice; DADT is anti-choice; zoning is anti-choice, mandatory (public) school attendance is anti-choice; compulsory Social Security participation is anti-choice.
And anti-choice is driven by the old "TOTBAL" syndrome: "There Ought To Be A Law!"... in which the search for someone who asks for a law to reign in his own behavior is worse than Diogenes with his lantern in daylight, walking the streets of Athens in search of an honest (some sources say "actual") man; the reason most people want laws is to require everyone to do things their way -- and have no choice.
In opposition to that, of course, is what good old Ben Franklin wanted on the national currency as a motto: "Mind Your Business". The "own" preceding "your" is implied, as is the converse: don't go about minding anyone else's business. "In God We Trust" was nice (not that God ever backed our currency), but it was just a sentiment, and one that helped feed a self-righteousness that has fed anti-choice; I'd vote with my own blood if there were no pen handy to get Franklin's motto on our money.
Which takes me to another suggestion: that the urge for socialism in the U.S. is ultimately driven by the strict Puritan heritage, which not only felt that a community should take care of its own, but which wanted to tell everyone in that community exactly how to live. The neo-Puritans abound in the Republican Party, but the heritage of doing good for/to others whether they like it or not (and jail them if they don't cooperate!) is just as alive and well among Democrats -- where it drives socialist urges.
BTW, as with the 'tragedy of the commons' phenomenon, it's only a few who would be like that kid, abusing the system by leaving his harm to others: one of his friends called him a "moron", and another called him a "lazy ass".
Another was bright enough to actually ask why pedaling like that was bad for his knees -- God, I love 'teachable moments'! -- so I explained (I would love to be there if he went home and said, "Mom, I need a new bike -- this one's bad for my knees").