Did I just get an STD?

[Daddysboy88]

Im not sure if this is the right place to post this so forgive me if Im wrong. Also Im in a hurry so this might not all make sense but I will come back later and clarify anything that needs clarified. Im really just looking for some answers ASAP. I hate myself for doing this. I will NEVER put myself in that position again.

I just had a 4 some for the first time. One guy I have played with a few times a couple years back, one I had once before and the other guy I do not know.

They have been trying to get me to try "T" but I dont do any had drugs anymore so I said no. I think these guys were clean before but considering they have been using the stuff regularly for the last couple years or so Im afraid they may have made some bad decisions between then and now.

I weighed the chances for a few hours before I went and decided I would be ok (Thinking with my dick). But now after the fact I am freaking out and wishing I had never taken the chance. They were all high on the stuff and I was not so I came about 20-30 minutes into the session but nobody else did. They are still down there sucking ass right now Im pretty sure. Nobody fucked anybody, all we did was suck dick and rim with a tiny bit of kissing and some fingers in my ass. At one point Im pretty sure they thought I was high on poppers enough to where I wouldnt care if they rode me bareback. Im pretty sure the one guy tried to ride me but I stopped that and they SWEAR that isnt what they were trying to do.

Do you guys think I should be worried? Do guys with HIV try to pull that kind of stuff on clean guys? Maybe thinking if I just go ahead and get HIV I will be more fun to play with after I get it because then I wont care and Ill do whatever with them? Or am I just Thinking way too far into this? Im going to get tested on Monday but that probly wont even tell me anything because your supposed to wait 6 months I think. Is that PEP or whatever its called free like the test or do I have to pay for that?

Im sure there are some educated guys on here and I hope you can help me out

Thanks allot in advance

 

[Horschallen]

!. Calm down
2. Brace yourself
3. Get tested'
4. Know the results
5. Move on accordingly and carefully

 

[juicyjack]

Your chances of getting HIV from this are very very low, but not impossible. As long as you haven't had actual sex you shouldn't worry too much about that. You honestly have a bigger chance of getting struck by lightning. However you can easily get other STD's or STI's from oral sex. You should probably be more careful in the future. Most are curable but they suck and cost money to treat and if you don't treat them, they can be life-threatening.

If you get symptoms of an STD then get tested soon. If not, then get tested for everything including HIV just for piece of mind in about 3 months. It takes longer to test positive for an HIV test than other STD's. But don't worry in the meantime. Like I said, the chances of you getting HIV are incredibly low.

 

[juicyjack]

Which ones(obviously besides HIV) can be life-threatening if not treated?

Would you mind posting a list of everything one should be tested for?

I think just about all of them can cause at least some complications, but I know Syphilis for sure can be life-threatening if it is not treated. Also STDs become harder to treat the longer you leave them untreated. Gonorrhea for example can usually be treated just by taking one pill if it is caught early but if it isn't, it will become much more resistant and mess with your immune system and make you sick.

Generally the things to be tested for(along with HIV of course) are: Gonorrhea, clyamdia, syphilis, and herpes. For men there are usually noticable symptoms but not always. As long as you have any sexual activity, even if it is just oral sex, it's a good idea to get tested. Most STDs don't take long to be seen on a test; usually about 5-7 days.

A good website to go to is thebody.com. It has a lot of info on STD's, statistics, and you can ask questions on there. Hope that helps

 

[Beachguyj]

They have been trying to get me to try "T" but I dont do any had drugs anymore so I said no.

What's T? Testosterone?

 

[juicyjack]

Thanks for the reply. I appreciate the information.

Anytime handsome

 

[1091MAC]

"T" or "Tina" is the street name for crystal methamphetamine. Term derives its name from "Christina," an alliterative nickname for crystal meth.

You are very right not to use drugs, but especially this.

 

[Daddysboy88]

"T" or "Tina" is the street name for crystal methamphetamine. Term derives its name from "Christina," an alliterative nickname for crystal meth.

You are very right not to use drugs, but especially this.

Thank you. I have tried my fair share of things (including that crap) and I have always done my research. I knew it was meth but the guy trying to give it to me SWEARS that its different and "the least addictive" of any drug to use during sex. "According to his doctor". This kind of makes me think that they might have HIV and while they might not be TRYING to give it to me they maybe dont think its a big deal weather I get it or not and so they are more worried about getting off than keeping me safe.

Has anyone else ever felt like this or done it themselves? Im just curious because the more I get into the gay scene the more it seems like the majority are really sketchy people

 

[Asenath]

Maybe you should hang around a better class of 'gay scene'? Generally speaking, if there's meth involved, go home.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Im just curious because the more I get into the gay scene the more it seems like the majority are really sketchy people

The deeper you get into any scene, the more sketchy people you're going to run into. If you're going to go to places where a lot of people are using "a less addictive form of meth - well, that's what my doctor told me", and where they hook up for foursomes without protection...you're looking at a sketchy group of people. And note that you're now in that second group, even if you're not in the first.

Lex

 

[Daddysboy88]

What do you mean by first and second group?

And yes I agree I shouldnt and dont want to be associated with "that group". Like I said I was thinking with my dick and nobody should ever do that. The one guy (the only one a i really wanted) was my friends dad and he is FUCKING HOT! His chest, his abs, his ass, everything is just damn near perfect. His only fault is that he likes to get WILD. That to me is extremely hot and really scarey at the same time. Its fun to play like that but I also fear that it makes him make stupid decisions like meth or unprotected sex.

Why do all the hot men have to be unsafe or taken? damn it

 

[voyager1994]

Calm down.

Go and see a doctor, explained what happened, and seek advice on what you should do now.

Let this be a lesson so hopefully you'd be more careful next time.

 

[ravenstar]

Sorry initally posted having read the first page only, shouldn't have. I'm calling shenanigans.

 

[Daddysboy88]

Sorry initally posted having read the first page only, shouldn't have. I'm calling shenanigans.

What are you even talking about?