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Did I over react?

I DON't think that you overreacted (as most of the posters here think);
I woulda done the same had I been in your shoes.

Also, don't go changin' your ways just cuz you think it makes someone else happy. Do it for YOURSELF.

You gotta go shirtless and hairy with a cowboy hat, and you gotta love a good chew. That's like a good cowboy going to waste!
 
texan_slant said:
I DON't think that you overreacted (as most of the posters here think);
I woulda done the same had I been in your shoes.

Also, don't go changin' your ways just cuz you think it makes someone else happy. Do it for YOURSELF.

You gotta go shirtless and hairy with a cowboy hat, and you gotta love a good chew. That's like a good cowboy going to waste!
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With me, I made my bf give up smoking. I see nothing wrong with asking someone to stop an unhealthy habit like that. The rest of the stuff though,unless the ex was willing to give up certain things as well,sounds like he was a control freak.
And IMO,it is not overreacting in ending the relationship when your bf has shown he is willing to lie and deceive you and others in regards to what's yours.
This wasn't the first time he did it, it's the first time he got caught.
As hard as it was to end the relationship with someone you've lived with for the past six years, it appears that his true nature has come through. Better you found out this way..than some other way.
 
How could anyone say you overreacted?

What he did was incredible sign of a lack of respect for you. To do this behind your back? He would have had to have one great reason.

No, you're better off without him. If he does this so callously, what's next?

good riddance.
 
I love my pets so much. They are my family. I would be livid if some guy did this, especially without telling me about it, that makes it way worse. You didn't overreact at all.
 
No.

You did the right thing.

I would have burned the shit in a pile on the front lawn.

And I don't like Rottweilers.
 
I feel like I'm missing some information. Why did your ex feel like he could give away your dogs?
 
After a 6 year relationship I have to believe he knew how you would respond to him attempting to give away your dogs behind your back. It also seems strange that the woman would come to pick them up when you were home (and didn't know what was going on) and he was nowhere to be seen. Maybe he was looking for a way out and was too cowardly to end it like a man. I am sorry that things didn't work out the way you had hoped. You sound like a decent guy and I think you deserve a man who is going to respect you and be an adult. Keep your head up, and your chest bare!
 
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