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Did I overstep my bounds?

You talked with them. THEY should have deleted the accounts, or at least the photos. Did they not think it was any big deal?

Lex
 
Tell the police about the father before anything happens (either by phone or by email)
 
I think you handled it properly. Ideally the parents should be told, but in this situation probably not. Hope you did a lot of counseling.

At the radio station I managed, we had volunteers of all ages. Two teenage boys where looking at porn on the office computer. They had a very conservative pastor for a father and if he had known the result would have been serve. I had a long talk with them and they learned their lesson and there was no more trouble.
 
>>>They were desperate to delete the accounts and promised to never open another one.

OH! You didn't make that clear. I thought you talked to them about it, and they didn't care, so you went behind their backs and deleted them without saying so. If THEY wanted them deleted, then yeah - it's all good.

Lex
 
RazorzEdge88 said:
You realize the inconsistency of what you're saying, right?

"I had to protect them from their father."

"Their father has never done anything I could get him for."

I understand your situation entirely (we've all seen the type of thing in movies or TV - you fear someone but you can't prove they're any danger), but if you really, legitimately think this guy's a threat to a point that you had to delete these kids' facebook accounts, doesn't that tell you something? Seems like you need to take SOME kind of action.
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Its strange he thought it was important enough to add what he did, but now is trying to get out of it.

Either their father is dangerous or not. If not Piggy should not have wrote;

I wouldn't have said anything, but their father is nuts. He owns countless guns and God knows what he'll do if he found their accounts. Someone else could have easily found it and told him. He threatened others about killing them when they did something he didn't like.
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Piggy said:
And tell the authorities what? The only thing I can think of is he's not keeping his guns locked.
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This to start with.


I wouldn't have said anything, but their father is nuts. He owns countless guns and God knows what he'll do if he found their accounts. Someone else could have easily found it and told him. He threatened others about killing them when they did something he didn't like.
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Sounds like you did exactly the right thing.

Parents can be a danger to their kids even if they can't be legally held in check. It takes a lot to remove a child from a dangerous parent - and that can be a danger in and of itself.

You took actions to protect the children from their own actions, and from their father.
 
Under the circumstances, I believe you acted appropriately.

ESPECIALLY under the circumstances you describe.

And FYI, brainwashing your children and keeping guns unlocked isn't illegal. We won't open the morality end of it, but the parents are doing nothing wrong.

I'd even go so far that Daddy has taught the girls a thing or two about the guns and how to use them, so they are probably pretty safe, really. A lot of religious fundies are pretty damn good shots, actually. :eek:
 
You did great porkchop !!

sadly, those kids are in the MAJORITY - there was some survey in the paper - about what percentage of 14-17 year olds thought it was OKAY to post nude pics - and while i don't remember the percentage it was quite a big number !!!

With two dad's recently murdering their gay sons -- it's a good thing you didn't blab to even their mom - cuz he might find out and go postal on them.
(((shhhush !!))))) we never talked..,K??
 
IIRC, facebook has a two-week window during which if one logs-in, the accounts become active again.

Are you sure the accounts were flagged for deletion and not just deactivation? I remember having to do a bit of digging to actually delete the account.

But as for your original question, no.
 
Fuck yes you did if you deleted their accounts without their approval (the daughters). You're their cousin, not their father. You have no right to make decisions for them.

If my older cousin did that to me I would be extremely pissed. Not just because its their facebook account, but because my cousin isn't a controller of me. A cousin has no right to do that.


And I dont see why you wouldnt just a.) Set their profile to private or b.) just delete the photos.
 
Piggy said:
Yes, I did talked to them about it. I told them how foolish for them to share the photos for anyone to see. They assured me they thought no one could see them.

They were desperate to delete the accounts and promised to never open another one.
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Oh, I didn't see that. Why are you even asking us if you overstepped your boundries if the kids wanted the accounts gone? Couldnt they of just done that themselves?
 
Piggy said:
their father is nuts. He owns countless guns and God knows what he'll do if he found their accounts.. He threatened others about killing them when they did something he didn't like.
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^That is an extremely troublesome statement, Piggy.

Sounds to me like Facebook and you worried about "overstepping your bounds" are the least of the problems.

I grew up with a step-father who was "nuts" and owned guns and made threats and all of that, and let me tell you it's nothing short of a huge miracle that I'm still alive and here to talk about it.

Forget about making waves. If you fear for the life of those children, (and make NO mistake, they still ARE children) then you might want to consider contacting CPS (child protective services, but I'm sure you know that already) and telling them what you fear is going on in that house.

Facebook is merely the tip of the iceberg.
 
JasunStrikesBack said:
isn't uttering a death threat illegal itself?

anyway, no, you did not do a bad thing by protecting your cousins from their psycho father.
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Believe it or not, simply threatening to kill your kids is perfectly legal. :(

Sure, it is verbal abuse, but I'm pretty sure no parent has ever lost custody for a threat. ACTING on the threat is illegal.

But if there's anything provable then it becomes illegal.
 
Joshua_me said:
Forget about making waves. If you fear for the life of those children, (and make NO mistake, they still ARE children) then you might want to consider contacting CPS (child protective services, but I'm sure you know that already) and telling them what you fear is going on in that house.
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It doesn't sound like anything is going on that is actionable by CPS. There is, unfortunately, a LOT of space between the points of being a good parent and having kids removed by CPS. That means a lot of kids live with a lot of abuse, because it falls shy of the standard of removal.

That's why I think the right thing was done here. CPS isn't likely to intervene, and their involvement could just escalate the abuse.
 
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