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Did you ever tell your mom you're Gay?

When I told my mother, she got really pissed off at me because, in her mind, I was putting my brothers and sister in danger by being out. She was worried that someone might beat them up for having a fag brother. Of course, she clearly doesn't care if I get bashed.

We don't talk much about personal stuff in my family.
 
jeraldjamescapao said:
my mom asked me yesterday if I am gay... and I was speechless.. i just answered: "mom, what do you think?", my mom just smiled. Oh Oh. what was that mean? ](*,)
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Uh yeah, she knows. She's smiling 'cause moms think it's cute when their kids get embarrassed. !oops! :-)
 
Yeah, she said, "I want for you the same thing that I want for all my kids, just be happy."
 
I'm quite positive that she overheard me making out with a guy at leat twice. However she didn't dare to ask me directly and I didn't feel it necessary to talk to her about it. And now it's too late anyway.
 
^ Hey, your father is better than mine and his "WHAT? I can't believe homosexuals can marry now" mentality :lol:
 
I told her when I was 14 and she threw a coming out party for me. My mom had alot of gay friends when I was growing up. She had no problem with me being gay at all.
 
I came out when I was 20 to my whole family and they all said we already know and it does not change a thing. I have been with the same partner now for 26 years and he is a member of the family. my nieces and nephews all grew up calling him Uncle Mark. We went to my nephew's wedding as a couple. My nephew and his wife wanted to know why we were not dancing, so we told them that we did not want to make anyone uncomfortable. They said to us, "If anyone has a problem than they can leave. This is our wedding and we want all of our guests to enjoy themselves." We each got to enjoy many dances that night and each got to dance with the bride and groom. My nephew is a US Marine.
 
loki81 said:
when I was 16, my then-19 year-old sister found my gay computer porn and printed it out to show my parents.
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Are you back on speaking terms with her? If so, did you take vengeance first?

She really did deserve to be punished for that.
 
Yes, and she hugged me and told me she loves me and is proud of me.

We talk about gay stuff all the time, from civil rights issues to making fun of anti-gay religious nuts who get caught with rentboys.

loki81 said:
when I was 16, my then-19 year-old sister found my gay computer porn and printed it out to show my parents.
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That’s horrible! How did you dispose of the body?

jeraldjamescapao said:
my mom asked me yesterday if I am gay... and I was speechless.. i just answered: "mom, what do you think?", my mom just smiled. Oh Oh. what was that mean?
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It means; if she has to ask, she already knows. She may be trying to tell you that she is accepting and you don't have to hide it from her. Most parents who are homophobic don't ask and don't want to know. But only you know your mom.
 
loki81 said:
I stole her diary, made photocopies of the entry where she wrote about her first period, and passed them out to people in her grade. :=D:
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Wouldn't that have been years earlier?

I should have thought tearing pages out of her diary and mailing them to anyone who's mentioned in them in a critical or embarrassing way, and burning the rest, would be a small downpayment on what she did to you. In any case, you should have found out who her three best friends were and found some way to irreparably destroy her relationships with them.
 
My mom asked some prying questions about a year after I "came out" at eighteen. She wasnt very happy especially because I wouldnt be breeding her any grandchildren even though I told her I had better things to do than add to overpopulation. (my brothers each had two kids so that's all the grandchildren anyone needs anyway).
She grudgingly accepted me being gay as the years went on although we didnt so much as talk on the phone for a decade and a half. She also liked my ex a bit better than my current lover of three decades even though he took better care of me when I was sick than my ex ever did and helped me escape a life of terminal sickly skinniness.
My dad and stepmother didnt accept it at first even though he was working among trannies and other assorted types as a stage hand. They would later turn around a couple of decades later and accept my other half for keeping me healthy.
 
CorporalAris said:
Bi polar disorder is a terrible thing, ain't it.

Ugh.
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it is.

but doesn't have to mean that the person is "psycho"--although yours sounds like she obviously has issues. But she could behave totally the same and not be bipolar.
 
My brother had the honer of telling my mom... through an email.


She's only said something to me once about it in person, something along the lines of I need to turn away from my "sinful lifestyle".



She used that term again in an email, and I said I would, as soon as she stopped living in the "sinful lifestyle" of divorce.
 
Wow, your stories are fascinating, well here goes mine

1. My mom once found printed gay pics in my bag, when I checked my college bag, they were not there, searched mom's purse, and found them there. Thorn them off, and was really scared, later she confronted me with my step dad, they made me swear on Quran that i am not a "Whore", oh thats what they call homosexuals here. Little she knew that I am Agnostic.

2. I came out to her regarding me being an Agnostic, she accepted that.

3. Since I am out to my brother, who is mom's pet, he told me that mom thinks that I am gay.

4. Yea sure she knows about me, however it will take another 5 years for me before they kick in the question of marriage (Forced Marriage), and that is when I am going to confront her. She will love me anyways, I know that.

I LOVE MY MOMMY, she is the best.
 
I wish she were still here, so that she'd have heard it, with my dad, last month. :(

It's wierd to think that it's now 10 years since her passing.

But she knew fine, even though we never spoke of it.

And I know she'd be supportive of me. :)
 
I told my mom I'm gay about 8 months ago during our worst argument ever (baaaaad idea ](*,)). She was completely shocked but received it a lot better than I had expected. Since then, though, we haven't talked about it at all. Based on her constant mention of some illusive future gf/wife of mine (that will never exist), I'm about 95% sure she either completely forgot or just didn't believe me. Either way, I'm really not excited about telling her AGAIN. Sucked too much the first time. Oh well, what ya gonna do? :rolleyes:
 
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