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Did you "experiment" growing up?

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During your teenaged years or when you were still in the closet, did you have any sexual experiences with another guy? Did any of your gay friends?

I've never once had any when I was growing up. I always regretted it. Too shy and unsure of my sexuality to even go out and experiment.
 
yes i did i would feel so guilty doing it too because i wasnt comfortable with it since i was still in the closet
 
Ugh i never did anythign as a child, you would of thought i was part of a religous sect or something because i didnt do shit

but i never even had an opportunity
 
Yes. And of course we all knew that "some kids experimented but it didn't mean anything."

Actually that's the biggest homophobic lie that growing boys are told. Some kids experiment and it means a lot.
 
Yes I did.

I regret not taking more opportunities.
 
Nope. Do I regret no trying? Not really. There's no point in regretting the past, it just takes energy you should be using to focus on the present.
 
SilverWolf said:
Yes I did.

I regret not taking more opportunities.
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Thanks to a comment, I'm going to elaborate.

What did I do? I sucked dick in a bathroom after school when I was a senior in high school :lol:

I was probably 15 when I discovered I liked men. And 16 when I came out. (Bad time for me, having a hard time at school, not because of my sexuality but other reasons) Mom accepted it, thought it was a phase (she gave that up last year) and fully supports me. Never had any issues regarding my sexuality. (very spiritual mom, never believed the church teachings). I'm incredibly lucky.

But anyway I'm way too shy do anything but senior year, an opportunity came out the sky and walked towards me. We talked, found we liked men (he was very flirty and I was honest when he asked me if I was gay)

We arranged to meet up after school (he had to work). Went to a bathroom stated feeling each other up till eventually we took turns blowing each other. I liked it...alot.

But I was no good at sucking :lol:

Well the school year went by and we met up 2 more times (both in the bathroom after school). I was way to shy to take the initiative and ask him and waited. Wasted 4-5 months in the process.

My blowjob skills got better.

School ended and we agreed to meet up at least once during the summer. I know improved my technique. I blew him and he shot his load in 3-5 minutes :lol: I tried topping but was too nervous. I tried bottoming but was too nervous. (I'm very shy about weight) So I just played with his dick alternating between blowing him and jerking him. He came again and I got nothing :lol: What little penetration I experienced, I liked it. Loved having a dick in my mouth. Would love to do it again.



And that's how I knew I'm not straight!
 
yes, the neighbor kid, my best friend, said we cant be friends anymore unless i get naked with him. thankfully i knew better one time because his mom barged in right after that.
 
I turned 13 and groped around with a hot guy a little older than me.
He wanted to mount me after we admired each others equipment.
I fled the room in which we were experimenting.
I had been raped as a child and the memories weren't exactly nice....
 
I think most of us had our own little things that we did here and there...

Internet pornography was pretty much the topper for me in determining my sexuality; given that whenever I had the opportunity I was in the computer room looking at pictures of naked guys...

I still recall the brief moments before that; when much like my brother and a few people from school I knew, were using the internet to look at naked ladies. Of course, I stumbled across a website of gay content, and immediately noticed that it aroused me more than the straight content I had previous thought I was supposed to be looking at.

I spent a sleepless night that first night after browsing that one site for little over a half hour; the usual questions of what does this mean about me and so forth...Until I eventually got exhausted, told myself I was gay, and that admission seemingly allowed me to fall asleep.

I've stumbled off topic slightly.

I think I look back a bit with some regrets on my childhood. Growing up, I had a very close friend named Josh. He was a year below me in school, but the same age, he had just started school late and as such was a year behind. We spent pretty much every hour we could together...

Numerous sleepovers, where I would bring all my Star Wars action figures and he'd break out all of his and we would play for hours. At his place, him and I would share his bed and fall asleep beside each other...Although, once or twice, I did wake up to find him cuddling against me.

I still recall the one time we found a porn magazine, and we took it back to his basement and flipped through it. At this point, I already knew I wasn't interested in the women contained within, but we looked anyways.

We'd discuss everything, nothing was really off limits for us. I can slightly recall walking home from school one day, on snowbanks, and talking about what it meant when we got erections; me usually saying it was a sign that I needed to use the bathroom.

My world was devastated when he informed me that he was moving away, out of province. We tried our best to stay in contact, but it just didn't really pan out usually. He would phone me, and we'd talk for hours, but it just wasn't the same.

Eventually, we got talking online and things got a lot better and began to feel like they used to...

And that was when we finally told each other, when we must had been about 15 or so... I admitted I was gay, and he admitted that he was mostly bisexual...Furthermore, he told me about all the things he had already done; and I was still mostly a virgin at this point.

It surprised me that he was telling me about how he had slept with other boys at our school, usually as a bottom, and all the other things he had done. He didn't name names, as he said he was slightly embarrassed about it.

Today, we're not talking. We had an awkward falling out, over what I'm not entirely sure, but he seemed to become paranoid about staying in contact with me. Telling me that he can't have me on his facebook friend's list, because then people might find out about his sexual preferences, and so...

Occasionally, I'll receive a random message from people I don't know, where he tells me it's him and we'll talk for a bit, but then he disappears from my life again.

Part of me deeply regrets not being honest with him sooner, if only because it might have meant that we would have been something more than friends for the time that he was in my life...
 
Nope I didn't. Wish I had but like another poster said I try not to spend too much time regretting the past.
 
Yeah, like really early too. When I was around 7ish my neighbor across the street who was the same age would come over and spend the night and when we were in the top bunk of my bunk beds we'd do stuff.
Then again when I spent the night at my mom's best friend at the army barrack while they went out. It was two girls and I was like 8 and we played a game like all night where everyone got a turn and you got to pick either kiss, touch top front naked , or touch bottom naked, to whoever you wanted to. It was fun and everything, but terminator 2 was on and I really kinda just wanted to watch that.
Then again when I was 13 with my best friend. We spent pretty much the whole day just doing stuff, it was pretty awesome, but we weren't friends after that which sucked.
Then when I was 15 I blew this Baron Rice kid all the time and even though he was an idiot and I kinda hated him, I started to really like him and pretty much nstuck to him until I graduated.
 
Does naked wrestling count?

Other than that, I was out at 17 and did some real 'experimenting' then, but it was clear what it was and that it wasn't really an experiment.
 
yes i did. when i was 14 or 15 my best friend and i were watching str8 porn and he turned of the light and said we should jerk off together, i was a little shy but kind of liked it.
a few days later he asked to suck me and i said yes, i was too embarrassed to cum in front of him though so i never came he was just sucking aimlessly, i liked it though. anyway we did some stuff together a couple of times but then i didn't want anymore it was just weird, the guy didn't turn me on he was like my brother.
well he proved to be gay anyway and had sex with guys through the years. i didn't cause i didn't find ''the one'' yet, i regret it sometimes but what can i do?i think it'll be special when i find him...
last year when i was 19 and stayed at his house he asked to suck me again but i denied, i said ''we are friends not boyfriends, i like you as a friend but you are not my type in the boyfriend thing'', he accepted it. i could really tell he was horny when he saw me in underwear etc and really wished i would let him suck me again...
 
The clearest example I can think of was when a friend and I were out camping in the woods. I thought he was asleep and I couldn't resist the bulge in his shorts. He woke up and said --"go ahead, and play with it" - which I did. We were young enough that he couldn't cum yet but I do remember fondly he great, curved dick.
 
When I was 13 and 14, I had a best friend.

At 14 he found girls.

I never thought of it as experimenting. I only thought of it as sexual contact sports.
 
I didn't experiment, but I knew who I was in love with.. and waited patiently until I revealed my "gay" self to him.

He wasn't so sure at first, but he gave it a try. He kissed a boy (me) and liked it! Then we did other things too!

That was my first boyfriend, my late, beloved Vincent...:D
 
I wouldn't exactly call it "experiment". I was giving my friend blow jobs in the 4th grade. Before that another friend and I played "doctor" in the back yard.
 
Yes I did. I have a sex-soaked past. You name it, I did it.
 
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