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did you have male friends growing up?

I have a lot of male friends when I was a kid and throughout teens. But when I go to college most if not all of my friends are female.
 
Growing up virtually all of my friends were male. The only girl I was friends with was a very tomboyish girl who was into sports like me.
 
Yes, I had 5 brothers and played football and wrestled in high school. I had 5 guys that I played sports with and we were inseperable from the 9th grade until we graduated. I had very few girl friends mostly because I had absolutely nothing in common with them except for my infatuation with men. One of the guys I ran with was my best friend all those years and to this day he has no idea I was so infatuated with him all those years. It didn't help much having to see him naked during gym and all the practices we had almost daily most of the year. When I went off to college that Sept. after HS I met Steve that first weekend and he became my whole life and I lost contact with my high school buddies. From what I have been told by my brothers, they are all straight and knew about Steve and I for many years. I always wondered how since I live 2,300 miles away from most of them.
 
I had a small handfull of male friends growing up, all were gay. They all ended up disappointing me one way or another, concluding in me having a problem with men today. Now, I only have female friends but I'd like to be more comfortable around guys.
 
I've always had about a 50/50 mixture of male/female friends. I usually hit it up pretty well when I meet people and throughout the years of schooling I found that I could relate to both genders and am a good listener. I'm easy going with both guys and girls.
 
Only a few in a platonic sense, a hand full of fuck buddies on the other hand, I did not get along well with most str8 guys, I hate the damn who's got the biggest cock (or what ever else) attitude that most have.
 
Growing up we moved every 3-5yr. So, I learned early on how to make, and leave behind, friends (guys and girls).

I was always a popular guy, though never a "snob". I usually had differing groups of friends across all "circle boundaries". I'd interact with practically everybody.

My senior year was the only year that I attended the High School that I graduated from. New city. New people. And, it was the Best year I'd ever had up until that point!

I helped organize, and emceed, Homecoming and Prom. Was active in the chorus and talent shows. Was elected Vice President of the Honor Society, and voted "Most Friendly".

The only people I'm still in touch with, from High School, are the three guys that I mostly hung out with around our neighborhood. Two were a year younger, and we didn't "run" with each other at school. The one my age didn't share any classes, nor was he involved in the same activities that I was.

That was also the time I was dating girls. :lol:
 
I never had a female best friend or female close friends. I always naturally formed friendships with guys, especially when I was a child. Not all guys are into sports or are rough, pure stereotype. You don't need to be a a competitive gladiator in order to have male friends.
 
Mostly boys until high school, when it was kinda 70:30 boys. Varsity and work and beyond is very much a mixed bag.

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