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Different body types - finding the right sex position

11and11

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Hello all, this is my first time posting (though I have been a long time lurker...)

I am in a relationship with my first ever boyfriend, we have been together for 8 months and I can safely say we are in love. We are moving out of home together and we're very happy!

Though we haven't had much luck with anal sex... He's experienced, I am not. We have only ever been successful with anal sex once.

He is very small in stature (short and thin) whereas I am taller and stockier, and I can't seem to find a sex position that we are both comfortable with. Every time it ends up being awkward.

He has nerve problems too and I often end up hurting him.. So sex for us is always a challenge. I'm going to try and make him more comfortable and less nervous, but how do I go about finding a comfortable sex position to match our completely different body types?

I understand we just need to keep at it, but any help is appreciated :)

Cheers
 
Try all of them. You will eventually find one that suits you guys perfectly.

Who's top and who's bottom? Because that's important if you're different physically.
 
MrBubulino said:
Try all of them. You will eventually find one that suits you guys perfectly.

Who's top and who's bottom? Because that's important if you're different physically.
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Sorry, forgot to mention he is bottom and I am top.

We've tried a few different ways, but either our bodies don't match up or it ends up painful for him..
 
i'd imagine you on your back with him straddling you would at least get rid of the size issue. i'm not sure about the nerves, though...
 
You should sit down on the bed and make him sit on you. That's a nice way to start because he can control the situation.
 
OMG!! I see I'm not the only one with this problem; me and my guy are good to each other but when ever sex comes up in the anal I just can't do it but after many tests i found the best way for me; this is what you do get about hand full of lube, and do what MrBulino said and that should work
 
Thanks guys :)

MrBubulino said:
You should sit down on the bed and make him sit on you. That's a nice way to start because he can control the situation.
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Yes that is the position we were in for our most successful time. But it has failed at other times.. I guess we'll keep trying :)
 
tried to let him sit on you, facing the other way?
 
Its time for the Kama Sutra of gay sex. Also the use of pillows that he can put under his bum or back/side. Also lots of foreplay to make sure he is relaxed/open. And lots of nice slippery lube. High quality lube makes all the difference in the world. The BF and I like gun oil, astro glide, and I've heard good things about EROS but not tried. The foreplay will be very important if you are really big length and/or width wise as well.
 
There is a big difference between my guy and me. I am six foot and he is five foot nine. I am the bottom and he is the top. We have been very successful in having anal sex.

The big thing is the bottom needs to be relaxed. My guy does an excellent job at rimming me before penetrating me with his cock. This always opens me up and relaxes me.

I have been with other guys who did not rim, but were able to open me up with some finger play. Then lots of lube is used when he actually penetrates me, very slowly at first. I am normally in the missionary position for the initial entry. He allows my ass to acclimate to the size of his cock before he starts humping me. Then once I am loose, we fuck like rabbits. Any position usually will work for us from this point forward. I hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!
 
Here's my advice, you (the top) should lay on your back on the bed, but at the corner of the bed. That way your dick/ass is just about even with the corner of the bed, your feet are on the floor, one foot on the side of the bed now, the other foot at the end of the bed. Your boy can now ride you either facing you or facing away from you, and yet have full control, and his feet can stay on the floor as well. This way your natural sexual moves won't work against each other, like it does when you're trying to fuck on a waterbed.
 
Thanks for all the help, guys :)

I will definitely talk to him about trying these positions.

(I am currently overseas, been away from my boyfriend for 4 weeks. It's killing me!!!)
 
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