difficult situation

[G-Lexington]

The fact that she's married may be problematic.
The fac that she's a co-worker definitely is.

This is a recipe for a major nightmare.

If he gets invitations of this sort, he can either ignore them (if they're via text) or playfully defuse them. So if he got a message saying "I'll probably end up all over you tonight", he could respond "Sounds dangerous. I'll pass. "

Lex

 

[KaraBulut]

18 year old + alcohol + married coworker = bad bad bad idea

He needs to avoid this woman. She is trouble.

 

[Danno55]

I agree with the others. This is a major problem ready to happen! She has no real interest in him, just a fun fling, and being married it causes all kinds of problems, and a co-worker too!! Tell him to use humor to defuse her( to avoid bad feelings) and stay clear, let her direct her attention to the other guy, and get himself out of the spotlight!

 

[Georgiadude]

sounds like a recipe for emotional and possibly physical pain for him. If he gets attached to this women and she stays with her husband, like it sounds she is planning on doing, he is kicked to the side of the road. She is married. If her husband finds the two of them together he could get his ass kicked or worse. He needs to run away from this like a scared rabbit. It has disaster written all over it.

Steven.

 

[Lube]

Sue her ass for sexual harassment. She's trouble, as everyone else pointed out.

 

[luminum]

It sounds good. It appears that she's being the aggressive agent in this drama. I think your friend can remain open to being friendly to her so long as she can handle that friendship. It's likely that she's unsatisfied with her relationship on some level and that what you told her helped her realize that she was involving someone else in her relationship issues. The break sounds good, and I think if your friend recognizes that it's a situation he doesn't want to get involved in (not when there are so many single women out in the world slowly turning into spinsters year by year), then he should be alright.

 

[josher]

I'm not sure which is worse: that she'a a married cocktease or that she's an alcoholic. (If she uses alcohol to "fix things", she is an alcoholic.)

Your friend is just asking for a ton of heartache, if he treats her as anything more than another co-worker.

Under no circumstances should he ever socialize with her by himself. She is most likely a drama queen and might very well tell her husband about your friend's attention to her. (Perhaps after she's "fixed things" with a few drinks.) That would be a very bad scene indeed.

 

[RedRedKroovy]

Tell your friend she's a skank and to run like hell

if she is the boss at work document everything and report her

It won't go anywhere--it never does when it is the woman that's doing it--but you will have it on record

I mean I'm not opposed to a free no-strings-attached piece of ass but I've been down this road a few times

There is no such thing as a free no-strings-attached piece of ass

Did I say run like hell

O and she could be setting his ass up. Something to consdier. I've seen that happen a time or two.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>She separated from her husband and moved out of their home. I think she realises that her marriage is in trouble.

Boy, you think?

Sounds like she was looking for a way out, and finally found a willing victim...er, boyfriend.

Lex

 

[Lube]

LOL.

Yeah, unfortunately, some people seem unable to break up a marriage gently, when they know in their souls that it is over.

Instead, they must cause it to end by fucking around.

Maybe it brings a finality to it all?